CHOPE

recently there was this case, couple "fighting" over a hawker table with an uncle
couple tio caught by police
HUH!!??!!?!?
like that also police case ah....
yayaya
u no read wrongly, really police case
coz nuisance made in public and also the young man pushed the old man during the "fighting"

but frankly
we should all asked ourselves
"chope-ing" seat very common
u and i also do it
even if u never physically do it, the grp u eat with also do tt right?
so frankly, in my own humble opinion, its not a big deal.....

but hor, to "push" someone over the table, in my humble opinion a bit over la

frankly, human are selfish creatures la
i encountered a few myself
table for 6, asked the two "can we share?"
the answer was "all taken"
but we actually saw that they were only 2 lor, uncle and auntie
but fine, so be it
then few mins later, another grp went to ask them, same reply and only the two of them were sitting there
DUHZ!!
after we finished our food, we saw tt the couple FINALLY allowed others to share the table with them......

see!!!!
selfish right
but its human

and what about the students occupying the seats in fast food rest or the starbucks or the coffee bean
when ppl need the table and chairs to makan, they occupied the seats to study!!!!!
or worst, they left their stuff on the table and their bags on the chairs......and just MIA
or the students who chope the table and chairs in their school libraries or even the public library when other users also want to use the seat....

so hor, i felt tt the issue here is not about chope-ing table or not...
BUT is to be gracious and share the empty seats with others.......

dont u agree...

SICK SICK SICK

day i flew off, i was sick
day after i came back i was down again
after 2 dosages of medication and anti biotics, and i am still feeling unwell
=(

but cannot take mc....
why?
coz doc no give mc...
coz got 101 things to do...

felt tt she cant live without me ... i am like her water.. she cannot live without her water... but can still survive for awhile without it ....

frankly, nobody is indispensable.....i am not impt
i am just a nobody
let me remind u again, since u need reminder,  i only got a "C"
tsk tsk

PUSHING IT

"if u know tt we have to discuss this impt work then u got to tell me u gg for another meeting just now then we would have discuss it earlier just now"
*fume* (discussed earlier means dun go for lunch is it?)
"but we already said so yesterday tt i would be gg for the pm meeting today"
"yes, tt was yesterday, today is today, and this thing was given to us this AM and big boss already told us to look at it"
*fume fume* (then do i have to in future remind u to eat, shit, drink and sleep? remind u every day to come to work? remind u when is pay day?? remind u every sec tt u need to breathe!!!!!!)
"ya, but they also not ard they gg to some site visit. and they only need it tomolo"
"yes, but they have their device to look thru the estimate even if they are not in office. u know tomolo we have our unit meeting then how?"

HELLO!!! u trying to find fault with me is it
ppl go outside site visit, u think got time to go thru the estimate!!!!
really tmd
and this is last min request. then what u want me to do?  if to u this is so urgent and impt, the cancel the unit meeting lor
dun come and tell me our unit meeting is more impt than this piece of work. then my own thing also as impt lor.
really leh!!!


really leh
i was quite calm and cool about it just now
so i let her bark like a mad dog
but now tt i have time to think about it again
i really damn mad leh

u dun have a brain of ur own to remember stuff and i got to remember for u??
come on la!!
u got 101 things to remember so do i
stuff i forwarded to u to clear or u asked me to forward to u to check
u no check becoz u too busy or u forgot
ITS NOT MY FUCKING FAULT and i can remind u to check it but if u still no do it then come on la!!
to me if u can chase other stuff and not do the really urgent one.. then dun come and bark at me

and when i nicely asked her whether she wants to take this oppt to update the $$$
she replied very sarcastically " want to change also cannot right? u also gg out le"
and i shot back "if need to amend, i would still have to do it right?'
and then she replied "dun need la.  still need to wait for u to amend and then check. i dun want to delay others to put up the slides for big big boss approval"
fine!!
i offered, and u want to be upset.... so be it...

i have my limits too
so dun push it

anyway i was prepared just now to call the team and said my boss said this one urgent need to rush out and i cannot go for the meeting
and if they need me there too, then please talk to her
and the she can go answer for it, tt we have something urgent to rush out and hence her staff needs to be excuse....

家变

so drama
thought only happened in drama
but i guessed its only a matter of time for to happen

"从今天起我们各走各的"

according to mama, sis threaten to jump down from the kitchen window
and blah blah blah
and then ho say
she blurted out the "words of no return"
no eat dinner and left and bang the entrance gate as they left
and now the gate spoil le

*clap hands*
well done
dun know what to say

mama is very very upset, she was choking on her tears when she was telling me
the old one thinks he very steady
the young one thinks she very pom pi pi
the youngest was crying
and the other one diam diam

and me, of course, i am not at home......
*beam beam*

all i can tell mama is tt once the two coolz down, they would be hee hee ha ha again
and the acting would start again and all would be well again
mama said this time wont le, over le

well, i dun know what to say
but then she does have a point coz the "words of no return" was blurted out

anyway u must be wondering over what did the two argue about tt lead to this ending
over sis's stuff which she has left over at our place for donkey years
frankly, even if we threw the stuff away
sis will never realised or know
*cough cough*
and since the stuff have been put here for thousand years, and she did not even want to look for anything here, then just throw lor
still want to ask her meh?
i dun know la
frankly to me, nothing find things to quarrel

tsk tsk
the thing is whoever made my mama upset got to pay for it
hmph......

DAY 8 - OSAKA/KYOTO

after checking out of the hotel, we went to visit the himeji castle.....

 

 

walked outside never pay $$ to go inside to walk walk

 chanced upon this in one of the shopping street while looking for the HK cafe... and both of us felt tt this one tasted much better than the dontobori one... hehe

since last day le and we still have some yen left over, we went to a restaurant in taka and splurge

after tt we went to walk walk around.... and.... FINALLY!!!  cherry blossoms!!  HUAT HUAT HUAT!!

DAY 7 - OSAKA/KYOTO

today is beef day.... so we went to somewhere nearby for some shopping before ending the day at KOBE station.. but end up still no find any beef restaurant!!!! kua kua kua.... really leh...

 

anyway had lunch at this shopping centre.....

 

 went back to hotel put down the stuff and came back out again for kobe beef..... but cant find any restaurant and i told her to just eat anything since hungry le... told me i can google and ask the station master for direction in which i replied i wont be able to understand wat he is trying to tell me anyway.... and she replied he would be pointing the directions to me and i would know.. i just looked at her... diam diam...

i dun like to be asked to do last min decision 'u decide which restaurant we will be having our dinner?" so last min, what homework can i do?? of course i can google and then see where to eat. but tt would take up a lot of time. i am not those who google and the 1st one is the answer.  i preferred to read thru a few blogs or reviews. maybe u can do it better than me, but sorry i cannot...

and forever reason, mood swings again and tts when she would said "u decide where we go?"  and i just said "go straight or turn right"  haha.. really, i dun really care.. got road just walk. how would i know where to go or what to see, when i was not the one doing the planning??? so to me, got road just walk, and since she also not interested to walk or see anything. 

i also dun know why mood swings.  already said cultured tour when she asked me interested bo and she was the one who wanted to come here. i already told her these two are not in my list but she wanted and i was like okie then.  so end up not up to her expectations or coz i pissed her off, also not my fault. u want come here, i followed. u want free and easy i already lay down my rules.  but since already there, just enjoy lor. but she seemed so bitter about the trip.. sigh... and i just want her to feel happy and enjoy the trip afterall paid so much right?

and already said u want free and easy can, dun ask me to do this do tt, read maps or whatever.  i will just follow and before the trip i already said what i want and what i dun want. so no need to ask me again.  of course i know she meant when when she said i should not rely on others and try to read the map myself and also know how to travel to the places we want to go... but but but but since she decided to forget what i said about gg free and easy, be it intention or unintention, then i will just any how decide, and the answer is the shortest q and the nearest one would be the one.....

coming to an end le the trip, so i also dun want to say anything about it. afterall gg home soon.  so might as well enjoy the remaining day and hours and mins and seconds right?  but i have also decided that in the future if the places not in my list or i am not interested, the answer would be a firm NO. and if there is no shopping i think i rather dun go with her....coz i am a very easily affected person....and i dun want my mood to be affected by someone else esp i have paid so much to go and relax and enjoy myself not to go there and see ppl's black face or be affected. might as well book a staycation in singapore.. much cheaper right??

anyway the dinner was fine to me.. we did ordered a beef dish. not bad actually. juicy and tender... * yum yum*

DAY 6 - OSAKA/KYOTO

 

today is bamboo day.... so i was joking with E "today we are gg to have bamboo set meal" and she replied " u can have tt urself. does it mean if i see a tiger i would have to eat a tiger?" kua kua kua... mood swings again,... better zip up

we reached about 11 or 12 bah... so we ordered something light for lunchie first while waiting for the romance train at 1402......

 

 

 

 

after the train ride, we went to walk walk in the bamboo forest.....

 

found this shrine.. and decided to go look see look see......

 

 

 

then back to hotel as we have already checked out from the airbnb

what was dinner??  hm.. i cant remember, but i know its not from lawson or family mart....heehee

DAY 5 - OSAKA/KYOTO

woke up 530am
to make our way here
to avoid the crowd
and also to climb up up up up and enjoy the fresh air!!

coz E hd been saying tt die die want to climb all the way up
i really went all the way out to complete this climb!!

even when she asked "continue or go back?"
my answer only got one.. " GOGOGO"

 the only way is up up up up... up to the summit!!!!  HUAT AH!!

looked at the crowd when we got back down.....

 my 2100 yen unagi rice set.... lolz... splurge leh.. but it was good!! 
maybe coz i was damn hungry after the climb

and then we dun know went to what town.. walk walk and nothing to see... coz the tea museum was closed tt day
and the mood swings again until we found this cafe ...

after tt back to apt and hence its dinner with food from lawson and family mart again....