went to attend this so called charity function (organised by office)
the school which we went to were for special children
after the whole event, i have some food for thoughts
frankly some of the special students looked very normal to me
they can even hold a proper conversation with us
then why are they here?
i just thought perhaps they are just slow in learning and therefore coming to such a school would be better for them
coz then, they can learn at theor own pace and not feel pressurize at all
but there were some special students who are special
in terms of physical and mentally
and i just feel for them
there is this particular boy, he just came over and hold my hands, hold my wrist, or loop my hand.
he even leaned over to rest his head on my shoulder, on my arm and even on my thigh when i was sitting down
on and off he will come to me, hold my hand and asked me to sit down
frankly, i was doing charity yesterday, so i am ok when that happened
but imagine, u are on the road and one fine day, someone like tt pops up from no where and did those actions, i think, will scare the shit out of u
and worst, report them to the police and they meant no harm at all.........
seriously speaking, they cannot make the final decision as to whether they want to be brought into this world
they just came just their parents said so
but as parents we have the final decision to say "yes come baby, dun worry. mummy and daddy will take good care of u, provide for u" or "sorry baby, not meant to be. we have to say goodbye for now"
and i of course know tt we have no rights to take away an innocent life
someone who cannot say no or yes
so helpless
but before u gg to say YES, there are so many things to think
will they fit into the society in future
will ppl look down on them
will ur children blame u for making them suffer
and frankly, not just them, but us too...........
we will have 101 things to worry abt and for them
esp, the finale, if one day, we no longer there for them, then can they survive on their own
and to terminate it at the early stage, might not be a bad/wrong decision afterall........
and i wondered, if one day, i have a bb of my own
and due to my age, the doc told me tt my child would be a special child too
will i have the heart to say "sorry baby, not meant to be.....bye bye...but mummy and daddy loves u"
sob sob
so to all out there
dun bother or focus too much on the gender of the baby
(gender of bb, its MAN's problem)
as long as bb is healthy and normal.....i think tts the most impt
agreed?
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