STUPIAK PORRIDGE

ok maybe its my fault
but is it always mine??

dear does not like to eat porridge
except for one kind which his mama cooked
to me its "mixed porridge"
it has everything inside
duck meat, scallop, veg, century eggs and the oyster or mussel ( dun know which is which)
but whatever it is, i eat practically everything except for tt shelled creature
so whenever his mama cooked tt, i dragged.......why??
coz sure got something to argue abt de
not tt i want to start it

1st time when his mama cooked
i removed all that shelled creature and passed it to him
his mama said "wow!! good food. u dun know how to eat? my son loves it"
its not a matter of know or dun know how to eat. its i dun like to eat.
dun know and dun like is 2 different thing
and surely, non of us like to be "critise" over something u dun like to eat
u like to eat, is u like to eat, i dun like to eat is i dun like to eat, but i dun stop u from eating, neither should u force me to eat
same theory
as simple as tt
but whatever is it, i just diam diam eat my food and of course, being unhappy
but its ok,why?
coz i always kana ppl say de "choosy, fussy, dun know how to eat. miss all the good food. are u a sgrean?"

WHATEVER

2nd time and then after we ate, dear grew smarter, i was allowed to scoop my own share
and i happily did it...why?
coz i can dun scoop the shelled like creature
and i was eating my food happily
*beam beam*

one fine day, we went fishing
dear's ta bao the porridge
and wa kao!!
opened my share, got the shelled creature!!
omg!! *thunder strike*
immediately i knew i will kana BIG TIME
i ate everything except for *ahem*
and i asked him to eat the *ahem* since i dun eat
he insisted tt i have to eat them all
and i simply refused
then he scolded me say i bring home sure like mama scold
as if its mine fault
come on lor......
anyway, he ate them for me

and the most recent case was last sat
after fishing, dear said mama not home so no dinner
we gg out for dinner...and we sort of deciding what to eat and all
went home, whole pot of porridge
so dear said we have to eat in since mama cooked so much
so i said ok, coz we haven really decide on what to eat and i dun feel like cracking my head over dinner
anyway i am ok de, no issue as long as no shelled creature

and who knows......sigh
this time, the bowl of porridge was full of duck bones.........
dear removed all the *ahem* for me already...*so sweet of him*
but the whole bowl of poridge was filled with bones
ok, maybe i exaggerated
not every mouthful had bones, but can u imagine how troublesome how "painful" it is to eat the porridge SLOWLY....to make sure tt ur tongue run throw the porridge to make sure tt ITS OK to swallow down

half a bowl later, i declared tt i dun want to eat the porridge any more
and dear said "no. u got to finish it. coz i am full"
and i explained i dun want to eat anymore, coz very troublesome
and he insisted tt i got to finish it, if not mama will scold
and i was like "huh? whose theory?" and then i threw a temper
"i dun want to eat anymore. every mouthful also got bone. eat already very "xin ku" and i am very unhappy" threw the spoon into the bowl
dear gave me a look and said "eat lah. be good"
and i said "no way"
and then he said "fine, then i will throw it away"
he took the bowl and threw the porridge away
and i sat there and sulk

both refused to speak to each other
until few mins later he said to me "if u hungry u go cook noodle urself"
and i went "i won't be hungry de lah"

u say lor
is it stupiak porridge
????

anyway, i sort of discover, these few times, dear very quick and hot temper with me
every little thing, he like blast away
i told him tt he has changed. he always like to scold me now over small issues
he must have found a new love and then keeps critising and finding faults with me....
he diam diam

on our way for a foot reflex session on sunday, i told him "the more u scold me, the more i will dislike u"
and then he went "then what will happen when u dislike me more"
and i went "then i will scold u and be very angry with u"
and he went "then what will happened after u dislike me more, scold me and be very angry with me"
"still very angry with u lor"
and he went "then i will slap u until ur mouth crooked. see how u can scold me"
*faint*
what kind of reaction is tt......