have u been told "u useless, good for nothing, pc of junk...blah blah blah....what r u good at? what can u contribute??? blah blah blah...."
have u ever wonder why are u here? or why are we all here??
can't be only have all the good ones mah...must have like good, better and best.
also cannot only have the bad ones...must have bad, worse and worst
just like cannot only have the rich ppl..must have mixture of rich, average and poor
we all are here for a purpose lor
cannot be we are really useless or very useful lots rite?
definitely got some roles and responsibilities
so tt we can make a difference....others then can see tt, u are better than me, or i am worse than him....
i may be pretty but she is prettier....
u may be a millionaire...but he is a billionaire....
so obviously, we are all here for a purpose lor
so tt we can contrast each other and bring out the good and bad pts of each other...
so if ever, someone scolds u "u r a useless, good for nothing bum!! what can u do? what can u contribute?"
u can always replied "one thing for sure, i am here to annoyed u..." so definitely u are not useless....
kua kua kua
>.<
duh!
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
SO MALU
was doing one more two more and happened to have some flashback yrs ago while having lunch at a coffeeshop and the bra hook came undone.....so pai seh lor
and i was thinking to myself, "imagine if it happened again now what can i do?" and i was smiling secretly to myself "luckily, it did not come undone lor"
and within sec, "snap"!!!
swee lor!!!
damn heng leh....strike 4D also not so zun lor
what to do???!!!?
continued to one more two more lor
there were no toilet at this level, 3 students behind me, where to go hook back
sigh
so have to "bear" with it, as if nothing had happened, nothing came off and continue to one more two more happily
luckily, at one time, the instructor got tired and made us stand along the railing to do some stretching and push up
and then she went over to the other end and while everybody were facing her, i quickly hooked up my bra..hahaha
hopefully nobody saw me man!! so malu....
but even if someone did, also cannot do much.....but at least i felt more "secured"
hahahaha
and i was thinking to myself, "imagine if it happened again now what can i do?" and i was smiling secretly to myself "luckily, it did not come undone lor"
and within sec, "snap"!!!
swee lor!!!
damn heng leh....strike 4D also not so zun lor
what to do???!!!?
continued to one more two more lor
there were no toilet at this level, 3 students behind me, where to go hook back
sigh
so have to "bear" with it, as if nothing had happened, nothing came off and continue to one more two more happily
luckily, at one time, the instructor got tired and made us stand along the railing to do some stretching and push up
and then she went over to the other end and while everybody were facing her, i quickly hooked up my bra..hahaha
hopefully nobody saw me man!! so malu....
but even if someone did, also cannot do much.....but at least i felt more "secured"
hahahaha
Monday, September 20, 2010
DINNER FOR 2
i have made a reservation on wed nite...dinner for 2
apparently took me some time to get the contact no.
sis told me before tt its very nice and her friends and her eat until damn full lor
so i decided to bring esther there for her birthday
apparently, why i did not manage to get the contact earlier, coz the rest changed mgt and therefore changed the name too......tts why took me sometime to find out the contact
so whether the food, service, ambience nice or not
i also dun know
hehehe
will be giving the rest a chance to impress us.....hehehe
but when i called to make the reservation, it took quite sometime for someone to answer my call and i had to keep repeating my name and my contact to the lady....
hope its becoz business very good tts why took some time to answer my call, and the place was crowded tts why cannot hear me well....
will we be gg back again...will we be introducing it to other ppl,
well, will depend very much on this coming wed.......
happy eating!!!
apparently took me some time to get the contact no.
sis told me before tt its very nice and her friends and her eat until damn full lor
so i decided to bring esther there for her birthday
apparently, why i did not manage to get the contact earlier, coz the rest changed mgt and therefore changed the name too......tts why took me sometime to find out the contact
so whether the food, service, ambience nice or not
i also dun know
hehehe
will be giving the rest a chance to impress us.....hehehe
but when i called to make the reservation, it took quite sometime for someone to answer my call and i had to keep repeating my name and my contact to the lady....
hope its becoz business very good tts why took some time to answer my call, and the place was crowded tts why cannot hear me well....
will we be gg back again...will we be introducing it to other ppl,
well, will depend very much on this coming wed.......
happy eating!!!
CONSTIPATION FIRST THEN LAO SAI
after appr 2 weeks of "off", i was back at work today
wa kao!!
someone like ma chiam had constipation for the whole 2 weeks when i was not ard, and when i am back, wa kao!! all lao out....just dl dl dl, happily dl to me
i was like wth, u mean what? u dun have to do?
i dun make noise is not becoz i stupidly do lor, just wait and see..
i also not save oil lamp lor......hmph
then whole day was busy
doing wat?
doing backlog
sigh.......
apparently, my covering, erm....did not do a very thorough job but at least some work is being done and i really appreciate it
*heartz*
but do le got mistake boss comes looking for me and say "hey is this X or Y? and i was like "gulp" my fault??
so i told her "huh? ok ok. i will amend but it was he who did it for me"
i mean, i am not stabbing lor, but got to make known tt its NOT ME!!!!
who want to eat "dead cat" rite?
then another incident, boss asked me is it annex B or c?
i told her c coz it was amended by covering
then she asked then why the hardcopy dun tally with softcopy
then i said oh, he amended and did not change the hardcopy but the soft one is the amended version
when asked covering, he said "i did not amend this section"
then i asked him "u told me u will amend it mah. so did u or did u not?"
then he confidently reply "i did not"
boss then say "but the softcopy is annex c not B...so she is correct to say tt u amended"
kua kua kua.......
and another situation, boss came looking for me
hey! is this correct?
one look and i know its wrong le
so i told her this is not the version, coz i remembered tt i gotten him to amend for me but it was not amended!!!!!!! *faint*
so i told boss tt i will amend it, small matter..no big deal...
frankly, in my own humble opinion, i just feel tt when u cover for ppl, u cover swee swee mah
but if u anyhow do, then better dun do
coz now ppl got to clear more shit
but cannot blame covering too, coz he also has his own things to do....
end of the day, i did up a TO DO LIST
and wa kao!! i already have 10 items on the list waiting for me to accomplish and actually one BIG one not there yet...i dun have much time left to do tt one, but no matter what, by hook or by crook i need it to be done up ASAP....
sigh
so tomolo, i will do 2 things on my list, get a report from my covering what have been done and not done and then this BIG one.......all the other 8 items on the list will have to take a q no. priority is the BIG one and nothing else...if not all my effort will be go, went and gone ........
anyway, someone made me a bit pissed off today (not just the then constipation now lao sai person) but someone who is being very helpful trying to arrange a meeting
a meeting which i have been trying very hard to arrange which always cmi and then he "volunteer" to take over and also cannot firm up a date
so now ppl will know its not tt i dun want to arrange for the meeting, but its always them who cmi so dun always fault me lor...
anyway, we arranged to have the meeting on tue but last min, the boss said said he cannot make it so need to change to wed, but on wed, the other party cannot make it, so wanted to change to thur, but thur already have our fornightly meeting, then he said we will have to cut short the thur meeting to accomodate this meeting, and i went "how can u shorten the meeting?" wat i wanted to say is tt "u r not the boss, u say shorten then shorten meeting meh?" sigh, so anyway to cut long story short,it was very difficult to get a date fixed up to accomodate everybody.
then the guy asked me whether can make it on tue morning, then i said but the boss said cannot mah. so its not our fault leh. then he said PM the boss cannot, so now he trying to arrange for AM instead. so i told him to go get the date first then we discussed further, who knows, he said tt we get the date then go ask the boss....i was like "huh?" shouldn't we be accommodating the boss instead??*scratch head* anyway, ended up, the meeting will be arrange on some time next week........sigh.....now someone finally know tt its not my fault tt i couldn't fix up a date, its u know who....*evil*
currently, my status is like so many things waiting for me clear...but cannot clear...one day, one day all will be cleared just like lao sai like tt.........BOM!! and system all cleared.......hehehe
wa kao!!
someone like ma chiam had constipation for the whole 2 weeks when i was not ard, and when i am back, wa kao!! all lao out....just dl dl dl, happily dl to me
i was like wth, u mean what? u dun have to do?
i dun make noise is not becoz i stupidly do lor, just wait and see..
i also not save oil lamp lor......hmph
then whole day was busy
doing wat?
doing backlog
sigh.......
apparently, my covering, erm....did not do a very thorough job but at least some work is being done and i really appreciate it
*heartz*
but do le got mistake boss comes looking for me and say "hey is this X or Y? and i was like "gulp" my fault??
so i told her "huh? ok ok. i will amend but it was he who did it for me"
i mean, i am not stabbing lor, but got to make known tt its NOT ME!!!!
who want to eat "dead cat" rite?
then another incident, boss asked me is it annex B or c?
i told her c coz it was amended by covering
then she asked then why the hardcopy dun tally with softcopy
then i said oh, he amended and did not change the hardcopy but the soft one is the amended version
when asked covering, he said "i did not amend this section"
then i asked him "u told me u will amend it mah. so did u or did u not?"
then he confidently reply "i did not"
boss then say "but the softcopy is annex c not B...so she is correct to say tt u amended"
kua kua kua.......
and another situation, boss came looking for me
hey! is this correct?
one look and i know its wrong le
so i told her this is not the version, coz i remembered tt i gotten him to amend for me but it was not amended!!!!!!! *faint*
so i told boss tt i will amend it, small matter..no big deal...
frankly, in my own humble opinion, i just feel tt when u cover for ppl, u cover swee swee mah
but if u anyhow do, then better dun do
coz now ppl got to clear more shit
but cannot blame covering too, coz he also has his own things to do....
end of the day, i did up a TO DO LIST
and wa kao!! i already have 10 items on the list waiting for me to accomplish and actually one BIG one not there yet...i dun have much time left to do tt one, but no matter what, by hook or by crook i need it to be done up ASAP....
sigh
so tomolo, i will do 2 things on my list, get a report from my covering what have been done and not done and then this BIG one.......all the other 8 items on the list will have to take a q no. priority is the BIG one and nothing else...if not all my effort will be go, went and gone ........
anyway, someone made me a bit pissed off today (not just the then constipation now lao sai person) but someone who is being very helpful trying to arrange a meeting
a meeting which i have been trying very hard to arrange which always cmi and then he "volunteer" to take over and also cannot firm up a date
so now ppl will know its not tt i dun want to arrange for the meeting, but its always them who cmi so dun always fault me lor...
anyway, we arranged to have the meeting on tue but last min, the boss said said he cannot make it so need to change to wed, but on wed, the other party cannot make it, so wanted to change to thur, but thur already have our fornightly meeting, then he said we will have to cut short the thur meeting to accomodate this meeting, and i went "how can u shorten the meeting?" wat i wanted to say is tt "u r not the boss, u say shorten then shorten meeting meh?" sigh, so anyway to cut long story short,it was very difficult to get a date fixed up to accomodate everybody.
then the guy asked me whether can make it on tue morning, then i said but the boss said cannot mah. so its not our fault leh. then he said PM the boss cannot, so now he trying to arrange for AM instead. so i told him to go get the date first then we discussed further, who knows, he said tt we get the date then go ask the boss....i was like "huh?" shouldn't we be accommodating the boss instead??*scratch head* anyway, ended up, the meeting will be arrange on some time next week........sigh.....now someone finally know tt its not my fault tt i couldn't fix up a date, its u know who....*evil*
currently, my status is like so many things waiting for me clear...but cannot clear...one day, one day all will be cleared just like lao sai like tt.........BOM!! and system all cleared.......hehehe
Saturday, September 18, 2010
SO URGENT??
how will u react??
phone ringing..
"hello?"
"i want to speak with X"
"X is in the toilet."
"i need to speak to X, its urgent"
"ya, but X is in the toilet"
"i tell u, i am Y's friend, calling from the agency, i got something very urgent to tell him,i need to speak to him"
*fuming*
"yes, i know. but he is in the bathroom, then how do u want to speak to him or how do u think he can come to talk to u?"
"oh, then can u asked him to call me then."
*silence* wa kao!! how the hell do i know who u r!! call who? sigh.....
"so may i know WHO R U and what number should he call?"
"oh, u wait huh" spoke to someone beside her..and then someone took over and gave me a name and a contact no.
"ok. bye"
the other party went "bye" too
and hang up
wa kao!!!
fuming lor...really
got such ppl???
few mins later
the phone rang again....
"hello"
"hello. may i speak to X"
"oh, X is in the bathroom"
"he still in the bathroom..hahaha..ok ok.. i called just now its ok. ask him to return my call ok. thanks"
"ok. bye"
"bye"
frankly, if u asked the person to return call, do u still call the party up???
or just wait for the return call??
i totally dun know
but i guessed, it must be very urgent....more urgent then gg to the toilet....wahahhaa
phone ringing..
"hello?"
"i want to speak with X"
"X is in the toilet."
"i need to speak to X, its urgent"
"ya, but X is in the toilet"
"i tell u, i am Y's friend, calling from the agency, i got something very urgent to tell him,i need to speak to him"
*fuming*
"yes, i know. but he is in the bathroom, then how do u want to speak to him or how do u think he can come to talk to u?"
"oh, then can u asked him to call me then."
*silence* wa kao!! how the hell do i know who u r!! call who? sigh.....
"so may i know WHO R U and what number should he call?"
"oh, u wait huh" spoke to someone beside her..and then someone took over and gave me a name and a contact no.
"ok. bye"
the other party went "bye" too
and hang up
wa kao!!!
fuming lor...really
got such ppl???
few mins later
the phone rang again....
"hello"
"hello. may i speak to X"
"oh, X is in the bathroom"
"he still in the bathroom..hahaha..ok ok.. i called just now its ok. ask him to return my call ok. thanks"
"ok. bye"
"bye"
frankly, if u asked the person to return call, do u still call the party up???
or just wait for the return call??
i totally dun know
but i guessed, it must be very urgent....more urgent then gg to the toilet....wahahhaa
Friday, September 17, 2010
BEEN THERE, DONE IT
I MADE IT!!!
its finally over
9 days of sitting thru lectures after lectures
just for this FINAL day!!!
yipeeeeeeeeee.......
so happy
can rest le
for the 1st time in my working life, i can't wait to go back office
wahahahaha
>.<
it will be a few more yrs later before i am assigned to attend the next level...
well, by then, i might be.....hehehehe
its finally over
9 days of sitting thru lectures after lectures
just for this FINAL day!!!
yipeeeeeeeeee.......
so happy
can rest le
for the 1st time in my working life, i can't wait to go back office
wahahahaha
>.<
it will be a few more yrs later before i am assigned to attend the next level...
well, by then, i might be.....hehehehe
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
WHAT AN ATTITUDE
while waiting for the bus this evening ard 730pm
i heard "horn horn horn....and hornnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn"
looked up and saw bus no. 87 picking up passengers at its berth
and no. 14 diagonally parked across the road and many buses were therefore "jam" behind it
no wonder la.."horn horn horn"
once bus no. 87 left the berth, no. 14 drove in and then buses behind are "freed" to pass
854 zoomed past, can see the driver's face, ma chiam can't wait to go pick up his intended passenger
and then came bus no. xx, licence plate 9774........the driver's face si bei cmi
as black as the charcoal and then he parked his bus beside bus no. 14 and "horn horn horn"
driver no. 14 did not turn and look at him....definitely he is GUILTY lor.....
and he even have the bo chap look
bus no. xx of licence plate 9774 kept horning and i tell u, there were passengers inside that bus lor
what he intend to do??
sigh.....
is tt how fights occur on the road?
road bully??
dun they teach the drivers what they should do if the berth is occupied by another bus??
to either wait behind the bus or just go one more round BUT not to park there and block others??
frankly, recently alot of "bad" reports abt the newly recruited "foreign talents"
driving on the road halfway, bus driver just suka suka drive his own route
when questioned by the passengers, said he does not know the route well.......
kua kua kua'
imagine, u r on the way for an interview? or maybe rushing to the airport? or rushing to the hospital to see someone for the last tme?? u r rushing to work? and then one joker decided tt he should drive to wherever he wants to since he forgot the route....then really slap forehead le
the drivers just cheong cheong cheong on the road, and horn horn horn at vehicles tt are "obstructing" them to speed away...
wakao!!
i was on this type of bus before
and it was a raining day
i tell u, the moment it reaches a mrt station, i quickly alighted...
reason very simple, i want my life... and i cherish it....
so since so many bad report...shouldn't the authority reviewed the current standard of drivers?????
i mean, they are not just merely providing transport leh...they also have to safeguard the passenger safety rite??
i heard "horn horn horn....and hornnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn"
looked up and saw bus no. 87 picking up passengers at its berth
and no. 14 diagonally parked across the road and many buses were therefore "jam" behind it
no wonder la.."horn horn horn"
once bus no. 87 left the berth, no. 14 drove in and then buses behind are "freed" to pass
854 zoomed past, can see the driver's face, ma chiam can't wait to go pick up his intended passenger
and then came bus no. xx, licence plate 9774........the driver's face si bei cmi
as black as the charcoal and then he parked his bus beside bus no. 14 and "horn horn horn"
driver no. 14 did not turn and look at him....definitely he is GUILTY lor.....
and he even have the bo chap look
bus no. xx of licence plate 9774 kept horning and i tell u, there were passengers inside that bus lor
what he intend to do??
sigh.....
is tt how fights occur on the road?
road bully??
dun they teach the drivers what they should do if the berth is occupied by another bus??
to either wait behind the bus or just go one more round BUT not to park there and block others??
frankly, recently alot of "bad" reports abt the newly recruited "foreign talents"
driving on the road halfway, bus driver just suka suka drive his own route
when questioned by the passengers, said he does not know the route well.......
kua kua kua'
imagine, u r on the way for an interview? or maybe rushing to the airport? or rushing to the hospital to see someone for the last tme?? u r rushing to work? and then one joker decided tt he should drive to wherever he wants to since he forgot the route....then really slap forehead le
the drivers just cheong cheong cheong on the road, and horn horn horn at vehicles tt are "obstructing" them to speed away...
wakao!!
i was on this type of bus before
and it was a raining day
i tell u, the moment it reaches a mrt station, i quickly alighted...
reason very simple, i want my life... and i cherish it....
so since so many bad report...shouldn't the authority reviewed the current standard of drivers?????
i mean, they are not just merely providing transport leh...they also have to safeguard the passenger safety rite??
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
COMFORT AND SINFUL FOOD
esther treated me to dinner just now....
honjin....located at CHOW HOUSE
it was yum yum...
now so full
how to kun...
think will be late again for class tomolo
sigh.....
need to go on diet soon
eat eat eat
eat too many good and rich food le.....
at least this is something which comforts me
lecturere said 18 students scored less than 13 marks..which is boo boo le
omg omg
he said he marked 20 papers.....but did not say is it the first or less 20.....
wa kao!!
and so happened, i am in the 20s......steady lor
moral damn sad leh...
tts why today eat comforting food....lolz
thanks esther...
i enjoyed myself and *heartz* the pressies too!!!
though no camera to take pics.....just a pity cannot share with the others.....
i think ard $35+++ per person
almost the same as the one in riverview hotel..except no teapot soup.....kekeke
but the steamed egg...ZHAN....
go try for urself and u will know......
worth the try
=P
honjin....located at CHOW HOUSE
it was yum yum...
now so full
how to kun...
think will be late again for class tomolo
sigh.....
need to go on diet soon
eat eat eat
eat too many good and rich food le.....
at least this is something which comforts me
lecturere said 18 students scored less than 13 marks..which is boo boo le
omg omg
he said he marked 20 papers.....but did not say is it the first or less 20.....
wa kao!!
and so happened, i am in the 20s......steady lor
moral damn sad leh...
tts why today eat comforting food....lolz
thanks esther...
i enjoyed myself and *heartz* the pressies too!!!
though no camera to take pics.....just a pity cannot share with the others.....
i think ard $35+++ per person
almost the same as the one in riverview hotel..except no teapot soup.....kekeke
but the steamed egg...ZHAN....
go try for urself and u will know......
worth the try
=P
Monday, September 13, 2010
THANK YOU
thanks to all our dear friends out there who made an effort to remember MY BIRTHDAY!!!
those who forgot...its ok.....
i know u are too busy to remember such a normal day...
no hard feelings
this yr, i think i got more birthday wishes.....kekeke
and also more pressies......lolz
mum got me a box strawberries.......damn sweet lor i tell u....kekeke
esther got me what i wanted........MASKS.....woohoo
as i am sitting here typing away the cucumber mask is "resting" on my very dehydrated skin.....but now....its all hydrated lor...thanks to skin food cooling cucumber mask......
hehehe
sister got me the chomel custom jewellery set
*heartz* lor....coz its butterflies........
and my dearest old man, though he did not bring me to watch "the life journey" as planned....i got a watch from him and also muddy mud pie and country pie from coffee club......*heartz heartz*
those who forgot...its ok.....
i know u are too busy to remember such a normal day...
no hard feelings
this yr, i think i got more birthday wishes.....kekeke
and also more pressies......lolz
mum got me a box strawberries.......damn sweet lor i tell u....kekeke
esther got me what i wanted........MASKS.....woohoo
as i am sitting here typing away the cucumber mask is "resting" on my very dehydrated skin.....but now....its all hydrated lor...thanks to skin food cooling cucumber mask......
hehehe
sister got me the chomel custom jewellery set
*heartz* lor....coz its butterflies........
and my dearest old man, though he did not bring me to watch "the life journey" as planned....i got a watch from him and also muddy mud pie and country pie from coffee club......*heartz heartz*
CANNOT MEET
great!!!
absolutely fabulous!!!
send 5 emails out to 5 different hotels......
all came back but none can accommodate my request
swee........
now what??
*scratch head*
2 options: opt for non hotel.....or increased nos. of tables......
absolutely fabulous!!!
send 5 emails out to 5 different hotels......
all came back but none can accommodate my request
swee........
now what??
*scratch head*
2 options: opt for non hotel.....or increased nos. of tables......
Sunday, September 12, 2010
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MIO
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME.......
*HEARTS*
So how am i gg to spend this special day of mine?!!??
well, apparently, i was asked to "plan where/what u wanna do tomolo ok?"
wa kao!!
every yr the same, i planned for myself.....swee.....
seriously, i also dun know what i wanna do on this special day of mine.....
old man is down with the D......ya...hehehe...lao sai.....
so he requested for activities tt allowed him to cheong to the loo when the need arises....
so wat can we do??
stay home lor.....what else.......
anyway, gg for lunchie with family tomolo
then see what to do after tt bah...
initially, he said will sms me when he wakes up
seriously, how the hell do i know what time he wants to wake up
so i told him in tt case he sleeps bah, i go lunch with family....
tt will settle half a day........
so end up, just stay at home for the rest of my special day lor..
here's wishing myself:-
1) be happy always
2) stay youthful always
3) as pretty as ever
4) everything i embark to do will be "soon soon"
5) no major illness...best is dun fall sick
6) stress free and pressure free
7) be filthy rich!!!! *hehehe*
8) get myself marry off........*arm chio*
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!
LOVE YA
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME.......
*HEARTS*
So how am i gg to spend this special day of mine?!!??
well, apparently, i was asked to "plan where/what u wanna do tomolo ok?"
wa kao!!
every yr the same, i planned for myself.....swee.....
seriously, i also dun know what i wanna do on this special day of mine.....
old man is down with the D......ya...hehehe...lao sai.....
so he requested for activities tt allowed him to cheong to the loo when the need arises....
so wat can we do??
stay home lor.....what else.......
anyway, gg for lunchie with family tomolo
then see what to do after tt bah...
initially, he said will sms me when he wakes up
seriously, how the hell do i know what time he wants to wake up
so i told him in tt case he sleeps bah, i go lunch with family....
tt will settle half a day........
so end up, just stay at home for the rest of my special day lor..
here's wishing myself:-
1) be happy always
2) stay youthful always
3) as pretty as ever
4) everything i embark to do will be "soon soon"
5) no major illness...best is dun fall sick
6) stress free and pressure free
7) be filthy rich!!!! *hehehe*
8) get myself marry off........*arm chio*
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!
LOVE YA
Saturday, September 11, 2010
INTERPRETATION
after watching the movie last evening, on our way back to the car
old man told me "hey! later u check for me whether am i having fever"
yes, he is sick....he said his body aches, tts why before movie, we went for a foot reflex session...
anyway, after he said tt, few secs later, i placed my hand on his forehead and before i can say anything
he said "i said later rite?"
then i said "hey! later le wat. from tt moment u said, we walked to here, its later rite?"
"i meant later, as in the car, not here, not NOW. r u stupid or not?"
"hey! this is not abt stupid or what ok? this is the way i interpreted and how would i know tt its different from urs??"
"so u saying u stupid lah?"
"ok. i am stupid, if u r happy. but this is definitely not abt being stupid or what ok. if u want to do tt in the car, then pls tell me when we are back in the car, can u pls help me check to see whether am i having fever. one thing can be interpreted in many ways by different ppl ok."
seriously, would u think tt he wanted to check his temp in the car too???
or i am truly stupid??
sigh.......if u r really sick, would u want to wait till them to check??? sigh.......
ok i stupid so wat!!! *evil*
old man told me "hey! later u check for me whether am i having fever"
yes, he is sick....he said his body aches, tts why before movie, we went for a foot reflex session...
anyway, after he said tt, few secs later, i placed my hand on his forehead and before i can say anything
he said "i said later rite?"
then i said "hey! later le wat. from tt moment u said, we walked to here, its later rite?"
"i meant later, as in the car, not here, not NOW. r u stupid or not?"
"hey! this is not abt stupid or what ok? this is the way i interpreted and how would i know tt its different from urs??"
"so u saying u stupid lah?"
"ok. i am stupid, if u r happy. but this is definitely not abt being stupid or what ok. if u want to do tt in the car, then pls tell me when we are back in the car, can u pls help me check to see whether am i having fever. one thing can be interpreted in many ways by different ppl ok."
seriously, would u think tt he wanted to check his temp in the car too???
or i am truly stupid??
sigh.......if u r really sick, would u want to wait till them to check??? sigh.......
ok i stupid so wat!!! *evil*
Friday, September 10, 2010
MAKE FRIENDS NOT ENEMIES
sigh
swee
last evening, the moment i walked out from the lift
the neighbour's door was opened
i saw the woman and the guy in the living room having their meals and watching tv
the moment the girl saw me......she no smiled, stood up and shut the door
swee lor
damn steady
no more friendly neighbour....only foes.....
swee
last evening, the moment i walked out from the lift
the neighbour's door was opened
i saw the woman and the guy in the living room having their meals and watching tv
the moment the girl saw me......she no smiled, stood up and shut the door
swee lor
damn steady
no more friendly neighbour....only foes.....
HIDDEN MESSAGE 2??
sigh
keep dreaming these few days
am i stressed or what??
perhaps the study is stressing me up??!!???
wat did i dream then for today..........
in school
met qi
she came home with me
we are in old man's room
then old man told me "hey! i gg to watch movie with XXX (another girl)"
"ok. u TRY gg" i went
"of course i will try lah" he went
qi was in the room packing her stuff, she is preparing to leave
then i went "why go with her watch and not me? he can only watch show with me and what show they are gg to watch"
then old man went "why cannot go with her. and he had bought the tics le"
and it went on and on...but he did said some stuff which hurt me....and i got tl le
seriously, we were only joking to each other, u know, like our usual self, coz in fact, he is watching with me.....who else rite??!? hehehe
anyway, then old man took ut 2 movie tic and put it on the bed
and i threw it onto the floor.....but i saw tt one of the tic got my name on it
then qi picked it up and saw "evil resident" on the tic (hehehehe)
anyway, then qi said "ok, i am leaving see u two"
but before i can say "hey. wait for me. i am gg with u" i woke up.......
another hint????hm.........
keep dreaming these few days
am i stressed or what??
perhaps the study is stressing me up??!!???
wat did i dream then for today..........
in school
met qi
she came home with me
we are in old man's room
then old man told me "hey! i gg to watch movie with XXX (another girl)"
"ok. u TRY gg" i went
"of course i will try lah" he went
qi was in the room packing her stuff, she is preparing to leave
then i went "why go with her watch and not me? he can only watch show with me and what show they are gg to watch"
then old man went "why cannot go with her. and he had bought the tics le"
and it went on and on...but he did said some stuff which hurt me....and i got tl le
seriously, we were only joking to each other, u know, like our usual self, coz in fact, he is watching with me.....who else rite??!? hehehe
anyway, then old man took ut 2 movie tic and put it on the bed
and i threw it onto the floor.....but i saw tt one of the tic got my name on it
then qi picked it up and saw "evil resident" on the tic (hehehehe)
anyway, then qi said "ok, i am leaving see u two"
but before i can say "hey. wait for me. i am gg with u" i woke up.......
another hint????hm.........
HIDDEN MESSAGE??
yesterday AM i dreamt....
i was in this hotel room where a grp of girls were getting all excited
then i realised tt i was attendng a wedding
whose wedding??!!?
old man's ....
*faint*
and hor, the thing is, i was not the bride.......swee
anyway, everybody in the room was so happy and chatting away
and i just sat there and sat there??!
hm...
after few mins, a guy came.....
this is the jng dian part
this guy, whom i dun know who, was talking to me
and then he hugged me leh
hehehe.....at least theres some "reward".....lolz
anyway, then he said he is gg back to his room to change le and whether i want to go with him
stunned!!!
no reply, and he left........
awwwwwwwwwwwwww..........*dumb folded*
what a chance!!!!
anyway, woke up immediately after tt
and told old man abt it
he replied my message ard 11
and then asked me his wife chio and sexy or not
*slap forehead*
told him i did not get to see the bride but all the "sisters" were
then he got excited abt it and i asked so tt u can intro to ur "bros"??
guessed his reply.............
he replied
"no. keeping for myself"
kua kua kua......
swee...steady....
but the jing dian is.........
ard 5, he smsed and said he is actually on mc today!!!!
wa kao!!
whole day no tell me end of the day then tell
then might as well dun tell!!
really piss lor
how many times must i tell him and explained to him
ah cat ah dogs all will know, and i will always be the last one to know
then what am i??
might as well be ah cat or ah dog???!!??
sigh
he always will tell me tt of course i am different
and why must he tells me everything to the extend of where is he gg and with whom!!??
i am not his controller
i thought this is basics courtesy to ur partner!!!!???
sigh
its not as if i will say NO U CANNOT GO if he tells me.....i just need to know mah....
gave up saying le
but i know one day i will definitely erupt.....
no wonder i had tt dream..........hehehe
its a hint......
i was in this hotel room where a grp of girls were getting all excited
then i realised tt i was attendng a wedding
whose wedding??!!?
old man's ....
*faint*
and hor, the thing is, i was not the bride.......swee
anyway, everybody in the room was so happy and chatting away
and i just sat there and sat there??!
hm...
after few mins, a guy came.....
this is the jng dian part
this guy, whom i dun know who, was talking to me
and then he hugged me leh
hehehe.....at least theres some "reward".....lolz
anyway, then he said he is gg back to his room to change le and whether i want to go with him
stunned!!!
no reply, and he left........
awwwwwwwwwwwwww..........*dumb folded*
what a chance!!!!
anyway, woke up immediately after tt
and told old man abt it
he replied my message ard 11
and then asked me his wife chio and sexy or not
*slap forehead*
told him i did not get to see the bride but all the "sisters" were
then he got excited abt it and i asked so tt u can intro to ur "bros"??
guessed his reply.............
he replied
"no. keeping for myself"
kua kua kua......
swee...steady....
but the jing dian is.........
ard 5, he smsed and said he is actually on mc today!!!!
wa kao!!
whole day no tell me end of the day then tell
then might as well dun tell!!
really piss lor
how many times must i tell him and explained to him
ah cat ah dogs all will know, and i will always be the last one to know
then what am i??
might as well be ah cat or ah dog???!!??
sigh
he always will tell me tt of course i am different
and why must he tells me everything to the extend of where is he gg and with whom!!??
i am not his controller
i thought this is basics courtesy to ur partner!!!!???
sigh
its not as if i will say NO U CANNOT GO if he tells me.....i just need to know mah....
gave up saying le
but i know one day i will definitely erupt.....
no wonder i had tt dream..........hehehe
its a hint......
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
TIO PIAN
3rd day of my course
and we have our 1st test
wakao!!
20 mcq like very simple hor
listened attentively in class
pay attention for hints
and then viola!!!
seriously, not all hints are useful.....
arggghhhhh
no time to flip the pages to get the answers!!!!
and 30mins really 30 mins lor
no more and no less....just nice...30 mins for 20 mcq qn
really tio sabo lor
not sure will i pass
but the next one, will definitely be a tough one....
and we have our 1st test
wakao!!
20 mcq like very simple hor
listened attentively in class
pay attention for hints
and then viola!!!
seriously, not all hints are useful.....
arggghhhhh
no time to flip the pages to get the answers!!!!
and 30mins really 30 mins lor
no more and no less....just nice...30 mins for 20 mcq qn
really tio sabo lor
not sure will i pass
but the next one, will definitely be a tough one....
COMPLAIN KING
dad complaind to town council (i think)
abt out new neighbour hanging their clothings at the lift lobby......
so the uncle came down and spoke to them
within sec, the clothings and rack went back into their flat
and since then, i think, a thin line has formed b/w the two units.....
great!!
now all residents cannot anyhow hang their clothings at the lift lobby......
was telling my mum, why not get dad to buy a landed property.....
then he will have no more complains...
abt out new neighbour hanging their clothings at the lift lobby......
so the uncle came down and spoke to them
within sec, the clothings and rack went back into their flat
and since then, i think, a thin line has formed b/w the two units.....
great!!
now all residents cannot anyhow hang their clothings at the lift lobby......
was telling my mum, why not get dad to buy a landed property.....
then he will have no more complains...
Monday, September 6, 2010
EVERYDAY ROB PEOPLE.....
on our way for dinner
"2 more min....can save $1"
turned left and ......... U turn and....
WAKAO!!!
so many car waiting too!!!
kua kua kua
loop hole leh.....
Saturday, September 4, 2010
CELEBRATION
yesterday, the office coll bought a champagne cake and celebrated for me and
another sept baby....hehehe
so sweet of them..... i like......hahaha
ate the cake, drunk drunk like this....hehehe
someone said after my course, we go eat again....hahaha
celebrate the end of exams.....hahaha
seafood paradise.......hear the name also know eat what rite
hehehe......what else...seafood lor *wink*
after work 3 of u went for dinner at riverview hotel....
woohoo....another celebration!!!!
another sept baby....hehehe
so sweet of them..... i like......hahaha
ate the cake, drunk drunk like this....hehehe
someone said after my course, we go eat again....hahaha
celebrate the end of exams.....hahaha
seafood paradise.......hear the name also know eat what rite
hehehe......what else...seafood lor *wink*
after work 3 of u went for dinner at riverview hotel....
woohoo....another celebration!!!!
LIFE IS SHORT
yesterday morning, i woke up suddenly and my heart beat very quickly
its like i have just finished a very tedious exercise
dun know why...no explanation.....
so i woke up, waved goodbye to the little one (she is on her way to school)
i just do my usual stuff but i dun feel really tt good
while waiting for the bus, my poly friend sms me
someone who does not sms me very frequently
and i was like "hm..."
anyway, she asked me abt another poly classmate name
and i told her i m not very sure (coz i was not tt closed with tt classmate)
she told me to look at the obiturary section, as she is not sure whether is she
the one
i came to office, found the papers
and WA KAO!!!!!!!!
seriously, i was like......*speechless*
she is ard the same age as me....37......
still single
worked her way up there to be a manager of a firm....
and most impt of all, she is planning for her wedding.....
why huh???!!?
life is tt short meh?
i mean, is tt why ppl said life each day to its fullest and do what u need to do
for tt day, dun leave it to the next day or find one day...coz tt day might not
come afterall.........
suddenly, i think think think, is it why i have been so depressed and low morale
for the past week.....coz something is gg to happen???!!??
i dun know....but the events just managed to link together
i think.....i have reached another point in my life...
really got to relook at my life again......
yesterday, the taiwanese talk show
the host was saying (abt r/s), women like to take their time to know the
partners well....but bear this in mind, when u start to peel the onions layer
by layer, by the end of the last layer, u will realised tt the onion has
"no heart"......so dun bother to know so much into the
details....just enjoy the process and the sweetness of the onion soup......
i totally do agreed........
so friends, any time, any date, any venue....if want to meet up, i will make
myself available for U.......coz i might not have the chance to do so
again.....
and of course, i love my family, and will spend more QUALITY time with them
and also, i love my dearest old man....no matter how mad he made me or i made
him......*arm chio*
ok, i love my enemies too....... *evil*
and most imptly, I LOVE MYSELF too!!!!
its like i have just finished a very tedious exercise
dun know why...no explanation.....
so i woke up, waved goodbye to the little one (she is on her way to school)
i just do my usual stuff but i dun feel really tt good
while waiting for the bus, my poly friend sms me
someone who does not sms me very frequently
and i was like "hm..."
anyway, she asked me abt another poly classmate name
and i told her i m not very sure (coz i was not tt closed with tt classmate)
she told me to look at the obiturary section, as she is not sure whether is she
the one
i came to office, found the papers
and WA KAO!!!!!!!!
seriously, i was like......*speechless*
she is ard the same age as me....37......
still single
worked her way up there to be a manager of a firm....
and most impt of all, she is planning for her wedding.....
why huh???!!?
life is tt short meh?
i mean, is tt why ppl said life each day to its fullest and do what u need to do
for tt day, dun leave it to the next day or find one day...coz tt day might not
come afterall.........
suddenly, i think think think, is it why i have been so depressed and low morale
for the past week.....coz something is gg to happen???!!??
i dun know....but the events just managed to link together
i think.....i have reached another point in my life...
really got to relook at my life again......
yesterday, the taiwanese talk show
the host was saying (abt r/s), women like to take their time to know the
partners well....but bear this in mind, when u start to peel the onions layer
by layer, by the end of the last layer, u will realised tt the onion has
"no heart"......so dun bother to know so much into the
details....just enjoy the process and the sweetness of the onion soup......
i totally do agreed........
so friends, any time, any date, any venue....if want to meet up, i will make
myself available for U.......coz i might not have the chance to do so
again.....
and of course, i love my family, and will spend more QUALITY time with them
and also, i love my dearest old man....no matter how mad he made me or i made
him......*arm chio*
ok, i love my enemies too....... *evil*
and most imptly, I LOVE MYSELF too!!!!
THROW TEMPER
"i will be gg for my course later. can u help me follow up on these"
"ok. np"
"not sure need clearance or not. i send email ask le, u just follow up for
me"
"i think no need lah. just go in"
"u think so? hm...ok...but i have send him an email. u help me just follow
up la. just in case"
"dun think require"
"ok lor"
GONE.....
next day, when i on my pc
wa kao!!
need clearance
so mad rush
threw temper..... wa say!!!
is it my fault?
said i did not ask her to follow up
great!! swee!!
then asked how come i did not check properly and why tt guy did not advise
properly
seriously, how would i know... i have not done it before....
seriously, why ppl like to throw temper??
i dun know....frankly, can throwing a temper solve ur problem?? i absolutely dun
think so
it just made the matter worst, no problem solved, and make both parties mood
very lousy and total a waste of time to stay angry with each other
hm...is tt why i seldom throw temper?? hehehe...or was i trained by the fishing
trips....
anyway, she helped me solved the problem at the end....and i managed to do what
i planned to do.....
but, is it my fault??
old man said i should not trust anyone
but...erm...its work leh....how can dun trust
and also the assignment is tasked to both her and me lor...
she won;t sabo me de
i know...i just know...
is tt why man and woman are different???
"ok. np"
"not sure need clearance or not. i send email ask le, u just follow up for
me"
"i think no need lah. just go in"
"u think so? hm...ok...but i have send him an email. u help me just follow
up la. just in case"
"dun think require"
"ok lor"
GONE.....
next day, when i on my pc
wa kao!!
need clearance
so mad rush
threw temper..... wa say!!!
is it my fault?
said i did not ask her to follow up
great!! swee!!
then asked how come i did not check properly and why tt guy did not advise
properly
seriously, how would i know... i have not done it before....
seriously, why ppl like to throw temper??
i dun know....frankly, can throwing a temper solve ur problem?? i absolutely dun
think so
it just made the matter worst, no problem solved, and make both parties mood
very lousy and total a waste of time to stay angry with each other
hm...is tt why i seldom throw temper?? hehehe...or was i trained by the fishing
trips....
anyway, she helped me solved the problem at the end....and i managed to do what
i planned to do.....
but, is it my fault??
old man said i should not trust anyone
but...erm...its work leh....how can dun trust
and also the assignment is tasked to both her and me lor...
she won;t sabo me de
i know...i just know...
is tt why man and woman are different???
STUDY TIME
gg for a 14 days course and then gg to take a MCQ exam.....hehehe
sigh
so many yrs no study le
dun know how it will be....
and i am still planning to go take masters.....
sigh
better think twice....
not gg to be easy
but, if this one is ok, maybe i can really start to plan abt my masters.......
and best part is, my covering is on leave today
and i haven hand over.....swee....
sigh
so many yrs no study le
dun know how it will be....
and i am still planning to go take masters.....
sigh
better think twice....
not gg to be easy
but, if this one is ok, maybe i can really start to plan abt my masters.......
and best part is, my covering is on leave today
and i haven hand over.....swee....
TASTE OWN MEDICINE
ARRRGGGGHHHHHH
i dropped my bb on the floor
wa lao eh!!
really heart pain lor
butter fingers
though it landed on carpet floor, but then, still heart pain leh....
and when i smsed old man to inform him (just to test tt my hdp is still in good
working condition) he replied "dropped on the floor just pick it up lor
:P"
steady lor....very swee....wait till he drops something, then i will used it
back on him.....
the other day, he asked me to help "pull" him up from the bed
so i did what he did to me previously, i just put my hands on his hands
then wait for him to pull himself up....
then he got angry.....said he will not forget tt very fateful day
then i reminded him tt he did tt to me before and i am just letting him taste
back his own medicine lor.....
still he was angry with me...swee lor
can do on others but not the other way
where got like this de... (i told him this...but he just plain angry....maybe he
just woke up from his sleep)
anyway, dun really bother la
frankly, if u dun want ppl to do it on u, then dun do it to others first......
i dropped my bb on the floor
wa lao eh!!
really heart pain lor
butter fingers
though it landed on carpet floor, but then, still heart pain leh....
and when i smsed old man to inform him (just to test tt my hdp is still in good
working condition) he replied "dropped on the floor just pick it up lor
:P"
steady lor....very swee....wait till he drops something, then i will used it
back on him.....
the other day, he asked me to help "pull" him up from the bed
so i did what he did to me previously, i just put my hands on his hands
then wait for him to pull himself up....
then he got angry.....said he will not forget tt very fateful day
then i reminded him tt he did tt to me before and i am just letting him taste
back his own medicine lor.....
still he was angry with me...swee lor
can do on others but not the other way
where got like this de... (i told him this...but he just plain angry....maybe he
just woke up from his sleep)
anyway, dun really bother la
frankly, if u dun want ppl to do it on u, then dun do it to others first......
NOT DELIBERATELY ONE
erm....i did not mean it lor
last time the hdp will flash flash flash when someone called
this BB does not do tt, and hor, i turned on to silence mode when i am in
office
therefore i won;t know tt someone is calling me
and hor, my friend angry with me.....said i have changed
sigh!!
i no change lor
its my hdp that changed lor
pls forgive me....told me this was the 3rd time i treated him like this.....sigh
and if i do it again ...he will not call me anymore
said he can forgive me the 1st time coz i did not know his number therefore
refused to answer the call
but 2nd time he said he called, got missed call, and i dun return his call
but hor, i want to confess here, i dun remember seeing a missed call lor
if have, i will definitely call back de
hm.....
no angry lah
are all guys like this?
coz my old man also like this....
i remembered once i went out with my family and thus no bring hdp
then he was so angry with me
though i explained tt i seldom bring hdp out when i am with my family
and i came back and called him immediately mah
so he said next time cannot like this.....
i have the habit of switching off my hdp when i am charging my hdp
and then so heng, old man called and couldn't get me
angry again
wa kao!!
my fault!!!??
seriously, i told him tts how i charged my hdp all these yrs.....and he cannot
blame me mah
and hor, he seldom call me de
so he just heng to call me when i charging hdp lor
hm...i will only be angry if after numerous calls, no returned call
or maybe, perhaps, i have not encounter such situation before....so now easy for
me to say NOW...*evil*
but really need to be so angry meh???!!??
last time the hdp will flash flash flash when someone called
this BB does not do tt, and hor, i turned on to silence mode when i am in
office
therefore i won;t know tt someone is calling me
and hor, my friend angry with me.....said i have changed
sigh!!
i no change lor
its my hdp that changed lor
pls forgive me....told me this was the 3rd time i treated him like this.....sigh
and if i do it again ...he will not call me anymore
said he can forgive me the 1st time coz i did not know his number therefore
refused to answer the call
but 2nd time he said he called, got missed call, and i dun return his call
but hor, i want to confess here, i dun remember seeing a missed call lor
if have, i will definitely call back de
hm.....
no angry lah
are all guys like this?
coz my old man also like this....
i remembered once i went out with my family and thus no bring hdp
then he was so angry with me
though i explained tt i seldom bring hdp out when i am with my family
and i came back and called him immediately mah
so he said next time cannot like this.....
i have the habit of switching off my hdp when i am charging my hdp
and then so heng, old man called and couldn't get me
angry again
wa kao!!
my fault!!!??
seriously, i told him tts how i charged my hdp all these yrs.....and he cannot
blame me mah
and hor, he seldom call me de
so he just heng to call me when i charging hdp lor
hm...i will only be angry if after numerous calls, no returned call
or maybe, perhaps, i have not encounter such situation before....so now easy for
me to say NOW...*evil*
but really need to be so angry meh???!!??
TO GO OR NOT
comex fair is here!!!
should i go or not?
get a new one or hang on to this one.......
hm........
erm.......
i saw the papers today
saw something i quite like....triple 9......hm......
how huh??
to go or not to go????!!!??
should i go or not?
get a new one or hang on to this one.......
hm........
erm.......
i saw the papers today
saw something i quite like....triple 9......hm......
how huh??
to go or not to go????!!!??
BUILDING STRONG RELATIONSHIP
someone send this......i find it very meaningful.......
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it
is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion
generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She
answered, 'Public Utilities Board.' There was silence. She repeated, 'PUB.'
There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a
lady's voice, 'Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's
pocket but I do not know whose number it is.'
Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the
telephone operator answered with just 'hello' instead of 'PUB'.
NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, 'Many people praised you for a successful
marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?'
The father-in-law answered in a smile, 'Never criticize your wife for her
shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because
of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than
you.'
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of
losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to
find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should
always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four
fingers are pointing at ourselves.
CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested 'I
am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one.' The SDU
officer said, 'Your requirements, please.' 'Oh, good looking, polite, humorous
, sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me
the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me
interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I
want to rest.' The officer listened carefully and replied, 'I understand you
need television.'
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife
and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband
and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are
blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect
relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake
up a nd discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands
too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their
spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the
case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that 'It is easier to
reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character.'
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse
character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..
RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that 'A speech will either
prosper or ruin a nation.' Many relationships break off because of wrong
speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual
respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt
the other party.
A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker
who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, 'Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date
in the secondary school.' On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her,
'Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction
worker.' She answered,'You should appreciate that you married me. Other wise,
he will be the millionaire and not you.'
Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's
like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
PERSONAL PERCEPTION
Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another
man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy
commented, 'Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey? 'Upon hearing
that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them.
Later, an old man saw it and commented, 'The husband is the head of family. How
can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?' Hearing this,
the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.
Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, 'How can the man
ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.'
The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they
met a young man. He commented, 'Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of
two persons. They are cruel to you.' Hearing that, the husband and wife
immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.
It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a nar row bridge, the donkey was
frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You
can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the
past, not at present, and never will be in the future.
Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..
BE PATIENT
This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to
admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily
hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son,
knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When
the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.
Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had
to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from
the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, 'Daddy, I'm sorry
about your truck.' Then he asked, 'but when are my fingers going to grow back?'
The father went home & committed suicide.
Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to
take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love.
Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too
often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the
performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take
while in a rage will haunt us forever.
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it
is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion
generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She
answered, 'Public Utilities Board.' There was silence. She repeated, 'PUB.'
There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a
lady's voice, 'Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's
pocket but I do not know whose number it is.'
Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the
telephone operator answered with just 'hello' instead of 'PUB'.
NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, 'Many people praised you for a successful
marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?'
The father-in-law answered in a smile, 'Never criticize your wife for her
shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because
of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than
you.'
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of
losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to
find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should
always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four
fingers are pointing at ourselves.
CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested 'I
am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one.' The SDU
officer said, 'Your requirements, please.' 'Oh, good looking, polite, humorous
, sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me
the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me
interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I
want to rest.' The officer listened carefully and replied, 'I understand you
need television.'
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife
and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband
and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are
blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect
relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake
up a nd discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands
too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their
spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the
case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that 'It is easier to
reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character.'
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse
character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..
RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that 'A speech will either
prosper or ruin a nation.' Many relationships break off because of wrong
speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual
respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt
the other party.
A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker
who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, 'Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date
in the secondary school.' On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her,
'Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction
worker.' She answered,'You should appreciate that you married me. Other wise,
he will be the millionaire and not you.'
Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's
like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
PERSONAL PERCEPTION
Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another
man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy
commented, 'Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey? 'Upon hearing
that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them.
Later, an old man saw it and commented, 'The husband is the head of family. How
can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?' Hearing this,
the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.
Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, 'How can the man
ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.'
The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they
met a young man. He commented, 'Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of
two persons. They are cruel to you.' Hearing that, the husband and wife
immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.
It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a nar row bridge, the donkey was
frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You
can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the
past, not at present, and never will be in the future.
Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..
BE PATIENT
This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to
admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily
hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son,
knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When
the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.
Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had
to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from
the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, 'Daddy, I'm sorry
about your truck.' Then he asked, 'but when are my fingers going to grow back?'
The father went home & committed suicide.
Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to
take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love.
Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too
often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the
performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take
while in a rage will haunt us forever.
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