CHOOT PATTERN

old man said i start to choot pattern???!!!??
*stun*
said last time i dun make noise but now i do

but but but...so yuan wang
seriously, u tell me, whether did i choot pattern or not?

last time, pat tor time, u want to put what in ur room so be it
who am i to dictate or tell u what to and not to put in the room rite?

now, its different
i am moving in, dun i even have the right to say "pls remove the fish tanks? no fish tanks in the room, if not no space to put the wardrobe and bed and the fish tank smells"
and he can tell me "cannot. fish tank stays. u never complain abt the fish tank smelly before lor. why complain now? fish tank stays, u go"
then i said "coz last time no smelly, now it starts to smell and no fresh air.fine. then i go"
he continued with "then u go where"
and i said "i am gg to somewhere where the fish tank no go"
then he said "ok fish tank goes wherever u go"
sigh
*shake head*

am i chooting pattern? seriously....tell me if i am....

then he even commented tt now i said no do housework ,no this and tt.
i mean, i just want to make myself clear now
can can, cannot then work something out
still cannot then see how to move on lor
i already give in by no insisting on buying own flat, i already give solution tt if die die mama wants me to do housework, then a part time auntie will comes into the pic, simple household chore i can do, like sweep, mop, clean but iron i am sorry lor and if she dun like, then she jolly well continue to do whatever she is doing.

i mean i am being truthful here and NOW, i am not painting a nice pic tt i will do this and tt and end up not doing anything
dun come tell me tt "i will definitely stand by my wife no matter wat happens" and then now choot pattern on me and said " dun do housework then mama will not like u"


omg!! what is this?
mama likes me or not, of course, is very impt to me, coz i dun want my hubby to be sandwiched and i dun want him to be in a difficult position. but if he chooses to "stand by his wife no matter what happened" then even if mama dun like me, he also must stand by me lor. now gives me crap but said i gave craps!!!!

and if really this is gg to happen, then go think abt it
u gg to stand by me and listen to nagging everyday
or save the naggings buy own flat....which is a better and long term solution?

really upset me...
commented tt i am not obedient, he will go find an obedient one
then i said "i think u need a maid"
still dare to tell me "u think i dun dare to find one rite? i go find one who mama will likes"
i almost faint lor...."mama will likes" come on, u are marrying someone u likes not mama likes lor.
then marry me for what? just becoz "u want to marry wat"
oh oh oh !!!
*slap forehead*

so i told him "pls go ahead and find. not tt i see u no dare. u just go find one. lets not waste time. i dun want to waste ur time anymore. find one tt ur mama likes"
"ok. i go advertise tomolo. sure got maid come. i choose one who mama (changes his mind).....who is obedient. not like u dun listen to me"
"oh pls, why should i listen to u? i am not a dog"
"u r a bitch lor, not a dog"
kua kua kua....always must have the last word...buay ta han..
"hey! quick, say me back leh, u r a bitch then i am a wat?" *slap forehead* still wanna "play" with me..i already pissed off lor....
"ok ok, u r a dog lover ok"
"no lor. i dun like u. so i am not dog lover" *arm chio* so proud of himself with the reply.
*staring hard at him*


then i said "ok fine since u dun like me, i dun want to waste ur time."
then we happened to be at the traffic light, then he unlocked the car lock and said "ok. then dun waste time, then u get down"
swee!!! *clap hands*
already told him many times dun play with me such thing (coz we do play this once in awhile when he send me home...coz i always say "bye bye" at the junction, then he will unlock the car door and said "ok bye bye") coz i will one day really get out of the car and tts it....coz many yrs ago, some one did it to me on the highway...i did not get out of the car, not tt i no guts, but why should i? i told him. i paid for the car, part owner of the car so what rights does he has to ask me to get down.....but i told myself after tt, in future, if anybody dares to do it to me again, i will get down and tts it.

so anyway, i was damn pissed off le mah, and he was still happily playing with me
then he sees me no action, he said "come, i help u" and he unbuckled my seat belt
next sec, i opened the door and his hands quickly came over, and hit my hands and said "hey! joking nia. why u so serious. dun play huh"
i looked at him and said "since u said u help me, and helped me unbuckled le, i must give u face mah. if not no give u face leh" then he said "i was only joking"

seriously, i hope he got the message loud and clear this time, i am in no mood to play with such thing.
and seriously, if we do have problems now, pls do resolve it now
dun let it balloon and later we all unhappy....

give in also got a limit
and seriously, i choot pattern??

i think "auntie" coming, tts why i am in a very bad mood
mood swings
so anyhow think
little bit of things just agitated me so badly
and he still wanna play with me
sigh
something is just not rite here

perhaps marriage counselling we should go...but old man say no.....
so he bear the consequences lor...i just continue to "choot my patterns"