LOOKING FOR MY SUPERHERO

was watching this china match making show

this time round
its the guys behind the counters
the lady will come and choose
steady rite?

first the girl will perform, then she is asked to choose the one she likes (hidden) then she will talk abt herself
then hor, exchanges with the male contestants
and the guys who are OKOK with her will leave their "card" for her
and she will have the final say as to who she wanna leave with
OR if she not happy with the guys, she can always say " I want to "gaobai" to my choose
and then now its the chosen guy who will say YES OR NO
steady right

anyway, this was the first time I watched this match making show
and there was this lady contestant, though got 2 guys left their cards for her
she chose to "gao bai" to her chosen one
and the chosen one rejected her coz hor she is too independent and too "strong" and he is looking for the demure kind

then it strike me!!
I must have appeared too strong too independent leh
ok, not appear... I AM!!!!
tts why hor... tts why lor..
DUH
but then again, not my fault leh
I am like this leh... DUH
but I seriously think need to change, if not, no good!!

so who can volunteer to teach me how to be a damsel in distress at ALL TIMES!!!!
and let the guy "PROTECT" me and feel like a hero at ALL TIMES...

ARGGGHHH
*pull hair*