SIMPLE REQUEST

i saw the status on FB
and stunned for a moment
thought it was due to some advise
so i kapo abit
and was told tt slowly things are gg back to normal..

of course i will pray hard for her and wish them all the best
but seriously, hope the decision was made for the right reason...

i just want my friend to be happy, loved and blessed
tts all
very simple
and if such simple request also cannot be carried out, then goodbye to u.....

what happened to all those hurtful remarks and comments made?
dun they mean anything???
and at tt pt of time when it came out of the mouth u meant every single word u said, and now, they meant nothing??? or i am sorry i said such thing ust to see u get hurt?
what abt embarrament to u?? what abt cannot give birth? what abt complicated relationship? what abt letting tt woman wears my dear friend's jacket?? what abt not coming home or coming home in the wee hours? what abt my dear friend being a car and not as impt as the motor?? what abt not wanting to take photos with my dear friend but dun mind taking with other with arm ard her????what abt.....what abt....
sigh????!!!

there are 101 things abt "what abt?" but as long as my friend said its ok
then its should be
coz only she knows what she wants and what u can offer her....
just a name in a loveless marriage?? or a truly happy family???

its not easy to maintain a happy family
trust me, our parents and grandparents or even great grandparents can come all these way is not easy...
its a matter of give and take, compromise, communication
and not one always take and one always give
unbalance rs.......

anyway, i am also a failure....what can i say rite?
frankly, who still want to get marry?
sigh