WHOSE PROJECT?

yesterday, the mama was like screaming over the little one no tell her abt the team work project
sigh
rattled on and on
and i was like "rolled eyes"
seriously, why can't she just asked the little one everyday after her school to give update?

tts what we used to do so
when i come back from wrk, she will automatically rattle on and on abt her school, abt what happened
i dun even have to ask her (majority of the time)

so i dun see why the mama and her now cannot have such a rs
??

anyway it does not matter
whether got tell or no tell
coz whether got tell or not, she still got to do the project

and then the mama suddenly gives 101 ideas
which was not what the little one wanted
i think what she wanted was our support for her and her team mate's ideas

anyway, she just rattled on and on abt how the little one should be doing the project
wat must she write abt, how to do it, where to find the photos and to paste the photos where
and i was like "arrgrggggghhhhhh"

seriously whose project???!!?
duh

it so reminded me of the PM, when we were in the library
i saw the papa and son, sitting at the table, son reading book, papa doing the composition!
*slap forehead*
ya, to the extent!!
i was like why cant the son do it himself?

anyway, then tt reminds me of another story
mama used to do tt for the little one too
helping her with her compositions, both chinese and ang mo
mama cannot ta han the way she wrote, so helped her to amend it
until one fine day, the little one threw tantrum asking my mama why she cannot do it this way
and she thinks its fine
mama explained to her why its not ok and why not fine
but she just refused to listen
and then both parties got all worked up

so me hor, couldn;t stand it, so i gave each of them a pc of my mind
to the little one :- its ok u know. u dun want to amend. let the teacher amend lor. afterall its the teacher's job to amend.
to the mama :- why get so worked up. she dun want to amend then dun force her lor. afterall its her marks wat. she dun want then dun want lor. and u can help her amend to nearly perfect, then exams how? u gg to sit beside her and do it for her? she cannot have this reliance mah. so let her be lor. all we can do is help her amend the wrong characters. tts all. dun go and change this change tt. then it becomes ur work and not her work and she will never learn. its the same for her other works, let her do it herself, she gt to check herself for the silly mistakes. if she cannot spot them, then so be it lor. let her learn the hard way. she dun want to learn spelling then so be it. afterall, its her own grades. notify her once or twice, is enough le, after tt, she still dun want to learn, then so be it lor. afterall, its her grades, stay back lor. learn it the hard way

hahaha
why mama got longer lecturer from me???
coz i see her every day very poor thing leh
checked thru all her homeworks, then amend this and tt for her
i was like for what?
its not her work if she goes amend it for her
so i took the oppt to tell her, dun need to stress herself up de
afterall, we have already done our part
the rest is really just up to her

but u can see tt after tt nite, mama seemed less stress
and most impt of all, i think the little one learned subsequently tt her grandma is the best lor.... whose grandma will help their grandchildren with their homework or assignment??!!?

like recently her school got the recyle the can rings
mama went all the way out lor
we drink, she keeps
lolz
all for her beloved grand child

hopes she knows tt she is the most fortunate girl lor
=)

anyway, back to the story
so hor, my sis is now like my mama back then...hahaha
wants to do everything
but frankly, how many can she do??!??
and most imptly, she must understand "WHOSE PROJECTS"
hehehe.....