NOT SIMPLE ENOUGH??

seriously, i think i need to make myself very clear when i gave ppl instruction or when i talk to ppl in order for them to understand FULLY

before the implant procedures, i already told mama tt NO FOOD
no need to cook any food for me, coz i dun know the extend of the gum being swollen, whether can i still put food into my mouth, blah blah blah
i told her the most i will eat is ICE CREAM
and when i think i am ready to eat, i will let her know
is this clear??  i mean at least i think it was

day 1 after implant, bleeding and slightly swollen, mama went "wat u want to eat? rice with blah blah blah"
i told her nicely or signal to her nicely tt "i dun want to eat anything"
and then she went "why not eat blah blah blah"
and then i still nicely tell her "dun want to eat"
she like think very hard and then went "why not eat blah blah blah"
then i screamed at her "I DUN WANT TO EAT ANYTHING"

frankly, cant she sees tt its swollen and i am in pain
sigh
eat what?
i cannot even open my mouth to talk, still want to eat
sigh

then day 2, she left me alone
and day 3 came again, she went "what u want to eat? i get u blah blah blah. or  i cooked the chicken soup u drink"
then i looked at her with dagger eyes
hahaha
day 3 damn swollen lor, like hot dog lips, seriously is she blind??
i signalled to her "I DUN WANT TO EAT"
and then dad came along and went "hey u can definitely eat porridge right"
and i then i also gave him a dagger stared and signalled "I DUN WANT. GO AWAY"

next moment, i heard him complaining to mama tt i was very rude
sigh
he said "why can't she just tell nicely tt she dun want. look at her eyes. like so angry with us like tt. for what? need to be like this meh"

AI YO!!
i seriously so yuan wang lor!!
i already on DAY 1 say i dun want anything, until i tell mama what i want then she can start to cook for me
but she just want to rattle on and on abt what to eat and what to eat
i simply bo ta han lor
and she just need to come bother me when i was at my "peak" pain......
wtf right?
i know they meant well, but didn't i told her i dun want to eat anything since day 1
if can eat, i also want to eat lor
who dun want to eat? u tell me
DUH

and already said cannot eat hot stuff, still want me eat porridge, drink soup
wakao!!
anyway i told mama tt put the chicken soup to cool i will drink it later...i still good girl lor

then now tt the bleeding has kinda stop, swelling starting to subside, i told mama i want to eat breakfast, but must be SOUP, i only want soup
so she asked me like ??
i gave her 3 choice "wanton soup, dumpling soup or fish sliced soup" as long as the soup is clear based de, i will take. so buy anything tt is easy for her and convenient too
u tell me, clear bo the instruction?
guess what she did to make me mad again?

she went "so u want noodle or with rice? what kind of noodle u want?"
and i almost fainted
which part of the SOUP she dun get it?
so i circle the SOUP on the paper for her and she went "ya i know u want soup. but with rice or noodle"
good rite
then i wrote no rice no noodle
then she asked me "then eat what?"
kua kua kua
i really want to vomit blood

then this morning, she came to me and said "headache leh. dun know buy what for u to eat"
then i looked at her "i gave u 3 choices right? u just buy lor"
then she said "but they all need to buy with rice or noodle de. dun have just soup one"
then i rolled eyes looked at her and went "then what u bought me yesterday?"
and she went "tts becoz tt stall got sell just soup de. others dun have"
then i went "then u buy from tt stall again lor..." *shake head*
and she can tell me "so u want dumpling soup again"
"ya la" already told her to get something which is easy and convenient for her le
she still want to go rack her brain juice for what?
if i can eat, i will go for laksa, mee siam, minced pork noodle, fishball noodle, nasi lemak, chicken rice, blah blah blah...but i cannot eat mah, then HOW??

if can, i also dun mind to go get the food myself, why bother her
and make me so mad
really dun know for what
so to make it easier, i told her  last night, "if u want, u can even cook the fish ball soup, add the crab meat stick for me, i can eat tt too"
and u know what she replied " how to eat? u also cannot eat"
then i repeated myself again "i can cut it up. as long as it is soft i can eat. dun want hard food"
then u know what the smart mama said "then i cook carrot soup for u lor. better"
and i went "unless u want to cook until very soft, if not i also cannot eat. u know carrot very hard one"
then she went "this also cannot eat tt also cannot eat"
swee!!
already told her what to do, she still want to give me this and tt, told her cannot work if she dun cook it until its soft then become my fault

the old folks think tt what also can eat
despite me telling them no hard food, no hot food
they simply dun get it
i also dun blame them la
they dun know mah
last nite lagi best, mama cooked curry and then told me "u can eat the rice with the potato ok"
i faint on the spot
i also no tell her tt i can start to eat solid food le, and she assumed i can eat
wtf
but raise my voice at her also no use
coz the brain no process what i told her

or is it becoz my communication skills very bad?? ppl dun understand? *pondering hard*


anyway, i told her last nite, dinner will be steamed salmon and scramble eggs everyday or if u want, u make soup, clear based soup ok. only soup
i hope this time the instruction is much clearer...gave her 2 choices...she can either do 1 everyday or do 2 everyday or alternate the 1 and 2 b/w even and odd days
and the smart mama replied "ur papa dun really like soup le, so dun know cook what soup"
*slap forehead*
almost want to drop all my teeth le
and i told her "then u steam fish and cook egg for me everyday lor. dun want soup lor. or u can cook one small pot of soup just for me also can"
kua kua kua

i think hor, i rather go back to work leh....stay home no can rest, but tio nonsense from them....though they meant well, i appreciate it
=)
*hugz*

and i thought mama learnt her lesson
coz last nite papa wants to drink soya bean milk, but it was a huge packet
so he wants to share with mama
but mama said she dun want to drink
then papa insisted tt its too big a packet so will share with mama and he will help her pour into the cup
mama said she dun want to drink
and papa went its too big packet and he cannot finish so mama drink
i think mama also buay ta han and raise her voice "i said i dun want to drink"
hahaha
so u see, i thought she will understand what i went thru too when she suggested to me to eat this and eat tt and then end up i said I DUN WANT
not tt i want to be rude, its just tt she dun get it!!

but whatever it is, i really appreciate the TLC from them.........