LOOKING FOR MY TAO HUA

joined two events
one on fri and the other one today

fri event only two contacted me
and today event....still waiting

anyway i am wondering
the guys' mentality is met le, contacted le, responded aka ONz???

i mean DUH
how would we know rite?
dinner was like only 15mins to get to know each other
how would i know OK or not
u know what i mean rite
and even if u gt response from the person after u send out the 1st sms does not mean tt she/he also LUM u to the max right?

this guy smsed me
he is OKOK
not my cup but i dun mind to remain as friends, afterall u never know right
so hor he asked me what i am gg to do today or we can perhaps go out for coffee
i replied i am joining another event today and thus he would have to date someone else instead
then he replied me with something very funny and weird.
cannot really remember what it was, but i think he pissed off
as in like i wasted his time

he said even if he asked someone else the person could also reject him or give him some excuses
and coffee with me can be any other time and not today and then he wished me dun know what la
but very obvious the hidden message is " we have come to the end of our conversation"
and i was like DUH!!!
tts what he asked me rite? what i am doing today? and if nothing on we can go for coffee
and i just HONESTLY replied him lor and i tio from him
tsk tsk

though i was offended, i still replied him to stay positive coz he never knows, someone might still agreed to go out with him and told him to enjoy the rest of the weekends

he replied me with a thank

and me... SILENECE

hahaha
no pt replying le
he also dun want to keep in contact with me
and hor, if now i am wasting his time, wait till he finds out my status if we continue on .......
then i tell u, its HIM Wasting my time lor
haha

which is good la
since i also dun know how to reject ppl, then perhaps its better this way

and there is this guy i like to mention
he very cute de
he looked at me and laff, look at his food and laff, talk also laff
practically he is laffing la
also dun know whats so funny
i looked at him also feel like laffing.... coz he laff for apparently no reasons
good right??!??
dun need to say anything or tell me a joke, i can also laff

well, if ppl thinks tt by attending one event and u gg to find mr/ms right
then sorry lor..... if u r lucky then u hit the jackpot on 1st try
if not, dun despair bah or be rude la,
afterall, every rs begins from friendship rite?
so why burn ur bridges?

now the next qn is should i make the 1st move again and sms some of the male participant?
no harm right?
afterall only 1 sms.....
no try, u wont know
try le, no regrets!!

HUAT AH!!
so well said.. i am so impressed with myself...lolz