Sunday, July 28, 2013

ONE CHOICE = NO CHOICE

frankly, this is my humble opinion
u dun take meat
but u should not "banned" others from taking or deprive others of taking
then end up, u complained tt ppl like this or like tt, or u disappointed with this and tt

sigh
we know u dun take meat only chicken, and we also tried to accommodate tt
tts why we always go for hawker where there is variety of food....u can order what pleases u and we can all eat what we  want to eat.... MEAT!!
but when we arranged to go eat pork/beef/fish... u dun come and say u want to join... coz end up we all cannot eat coz of u...and end up with chicken again....
and u know de, we cant possibly tell u right in the face tt u cannot join, of course we also want u to join la, but u deprive us of eating other stuff....u can maybe said join us for dessert or join us for drinks or ask whether the place got sell other stuff which u can order and eat instead

seriously, u dun make ppl go eat what u can only eat... tts very bad....
after some times, ppl will just shun u, as in, dun want to go out eat with u....coz the choice is either full veg or chicken only
and the best thing is, there is another person in the grp who does not like to eat veg!!
kua kua kua

hahaha
okok
honestly I can eat veg ONCE IN A BLUE MOON but I dislike ppl to DICTATE what I can eat when what I really want to eat is not u want me to eat
tts why I seldom join their outings when she is gg, coz I dun want to end up eating ONLY one kind of food
which is good rite, coz u can enjoy the day with ppl who does not mind and I can too (coz I mind..so I decided not to go and make myself unhappy)
=)

tts why today I can follow the flow
but someone cannot
hahaha
she sibei tl
coz there are so many goodies ard tt area end up can only eat CHICKEN
haha
of course she did say "its ok then I order other food there lor"
and I went "but tt shop only sell one kind of food"
and she went "orh"
and did not offer further solution, so end up, we all ate chicken rice....

really reminded me of Q
tts why, better to leave her alone, she can have her own grp of friends and without me, no love lost
once in awhile, IF we go out, then I eat veg lor
ONCE IN AWHILE.. and to say tt, I think very long time le
kekeke
also dun know wat happened to her

anyway, just my humble opinion
no offence la
if she continues to be so "stubborn" either she has no friends left, or she has only friends who also share the same taste bud as her, or she has those long long time go out once friends who dun mind eating chicken or veg with her

ppl's diet, I have no say
but when u go out as a grp, u have to accommodate at times and not ppl accommodate u all the time
not just on food, it applies to other things as well

cannot be a grp of u, then only 1 or 2 very ONz de
the rest ai mai ai mai like tt
one day, u either lose the 1 or 2 friend... or the rs of the friendship will be ruined
tts why I always say must make effort despite of how much commitment or how busy one can be....
anyway just my humble opinion

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