CHANGE MINDSET

one day grandparents brought grandkids out
the moment they got on the train
the granny was looking at the priority seat
keep looking and looking
but the person sitting there was happily chatting on his phone

granny to grand kids
:always like this de. granny always no get a seat on the train. the ppl at the priority seat will either pretend to sleep or talk on the phone. suddenly so tired. suddenly phone will ring. THEY DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHTS OF THE SEAT"
the grand kids replied
:its ok granny. only 1 stop away"
granny
: one stop also can sit. THEY DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHTS

frankly
to me
if you looked healthy to me and can stand
u stand lor
u also no have the rights to the seat
ppl must change their mindset
not becoz u r old and I am young, I have to let u have the seat
its whether u really need the seat or not

like in the AM during the rush peak hours
everybody is cheonging to work
if u can cheong on the train with the working crowds
then to me, u r on ur way to work, u r fit to work, then u dun need the seat
coz I am very sure those not gg to work de wont wake up so early to be squeeze in the train with others just to go shopping lor

but of course if u r the very very old kind
then u r of course welcome to have the seat, anytime
tts provided the person sitting on the priority seat is not sleeping... kekeke

I have seen ppl, cheong into the train
and moved towards the priority seat there and stared at the person to give up the seat to them
and I am very sure there are ppl who also think like me, "do u deserve the seat? do u really need the seat? or becoz u think u r old, therefore u MUST have the seat?"

then ur mindset is very wrong and sad to say, nobody will give the seat to u de

and sometimes also must see the situation la
the train is just so so so crowded
then to stand up give up the seat to u
ppl will squeezed and pushed and ho say lor
u got the seat
but the standing ones very poor thing
coz tio squeeze
of course, also wan to give up the seat to u la
but circumstances dun allow mah


remember tt time the preggie ang mo lady asked the older lady sitting at the priority seat to give up the seat to her
and older lady said she just removed her bandage to her foot and she also need the seat??!!?
jing dian rite
then the next door lady gave up her seat to the preggie woman but older lady still want to yak yak yak abt her just recovered foot

so u see, not just ppl sitting on the priority seat MUST give up the seat de, others also can give up de lor
so why they didn't??
coz they all felt tt the passenger taking the priority seat should be the one giving up
tts why its all abt the mindset!

a few times got ppl cheong to grab a seat
my colls would be unhappy like "need to do until like tt"
and then I will joking goes "its ok la. used to it le. their knees weak need to sit. we stronger so we stand"
and then we will laff it off

if everytime also want to be angry over ppl cheonging for seat, I think, not worth my effort and time to be angry
u want the seat, give u lor.
u think u very the li hai
OH PLEASE

anyway I seriously think tt the passenger mindsets must change la