SHE DID IT AGAIN

ya, I screamed at her again
I am fine if u dun know... just admit it
I am not god tt knows everything too
but dun u dare come and lie to me
or try to say something stupid to act smart
tsk tsk

BT wanted some papers... I asked 13 oclock to retrieve it from the file
since she do the filing right, she should know mah
but she actually asked me which paper
I got to explain to her and eventually I just told her WHAT IS THE BLOODY PAPER and she said oh.. and managed to get it for me

then BT asked for another paper, and I again asked her to find it
this time, I smarter, I told her "look for XX's email. and its some slides if I am not wrong"
and guess what?? she came to see me with an email.. pointed to para and said is it this one??
I was stunned!! I asked her to look for XX's email.. which part of XX's email she dun understand... yet came with an email from dun know who and just pointed at a para to me
so I repeated and said " is this XX's email?" and guess what? she dare dare reply "oh.. u want xx's email" and she walked away
and I rolled my eyes
few mins she came back.. with another email.. and told me "i cant find"
and I ho say liao
she filed and told me she cant find
if she cant find, then who can find
so I went to her place, took the file.. and started to flip
and then HEY PRESTO.. I found the stack of email I wanted her to find... and then I saw she highlighted the ANNEXES, so I asked her where are the annexes???
she looked at me blur look
and I asked again, u highlighted the annexes.. then were are the annexes??  did u print?
then she took the file and started to flip and then replied I did not print
and I went " 13 oclock, luckily I am the one who flipped the file, if its BT, we will have it again, can u quickly go print the annexes and file it
she said OKIE

few mins later, she came to me again and DARE DARE tell me" actually the annexes are inside the file.. just tt u did not see it just now.
I replied "how could it be? u also cannot see ah not just me:"
and she showed me the paper and said " see its all here. its already in the file. U did not see it"
I looked at her speechless......  she also got flip the file and when I asked her did u print, she said NO and now she dare dare tell me tt it was in the file just tt I did not see it just now
and to tell u the truth, the papers which she claimed was in the file DOES NOT EVEN HAVE THE FUCKING hole puncher holes lor
I just looked at her and kept quiet and then just told her okie then make a copy for me. thanks"

later on in the afternoon, she came to me with the file AGAIN!!!
and showed and told me "the annexes are actually filed under the tags"
remembered she told me earlier tt the annexes are in the file just tt I did not see it just now
but now she showed me the file and told me its filed under the tags........really made my blood boils

so I asked her
"so now if BT asked u where are the annexes, r u gg to tell her, its in the tags, u go and find urself?"
she looked at me 'but its filed in the tags ah"
so I repeated myself "so u gg to tell her to go look for herself in the tags la. is it?  if u are okie to reply like tt, I am fine u know. after tt its ur responsibility to do the filing. as long as when she asked, u can answer, I am okie"
then she replied " no la. of course I wont ask her to go find herself"
so I repeated myself to her again " but what I gathered from u was tt, the annexes u printed out and filed in the respective tags, so if she turn to this section, she will not see the annexes, she would have to look for the annexes under the other tags. so isn't it as good as she looking herself?"
and she still replied me "no la I wont ask her t look for the annexes herself"
and then I asked her :so u gg to flip for her is it? I am fine u know. if she asked,u like tt reply her"
and then she "then what do u suggest"
I just looked at her, take in deep deep breathe and went " I already told u what I proposed. but u dun want. u kept saying it is filed in the tags. then so be it. u go answer ur own way to her if she flips to this section and cannot find the annexes and asked u where are the annexes when u have highlighted and cannot find the annexes"
and she replied "okie, I think I will print the annexes and filed it in this section then. but its repeating u know?"
and so I just looked at her and said "it up to u. like I said.  u go answer her. u must always think of the person who is gg to flip the file.. she is not u, she wont know how u file."
and then she said "okie I will print and file then"

and then next min she calling for help.. said dun know which one....and then shout again for this.. and then again
I got so fed up, and I flared up
I said 'hey! can u stop calling and do it yourself. its ur own work"
and she said "but I dun know so I just want u to help"
and I replied "u have been calling me. if I help u, then who come and help me do my work. I dun need to do my work, I just do your work for u can le"
and then she diam diam

I know I am harsh
but I also want her to learn
I cannot always spoonfeed her
not tt I am very li hai or what
but she needs to learn la.. cannot take it for granted

and in any case, if any thing happened in the future, she would say "SY Said to file like this"
and I will tio for nothing

she came and apologised to me later in the evening
asked me am I angry with her
I told her I am not angry, so no worry
but what I no tell her is, I am just piss off

frankly, I know she did not want it to be like this
always come and trouble ppl
but after so many times I also got my limit
she better wake up her idea...... till I dun want to become the reason she throws in the white flag......