NOT HIS FAULT??!!??

read this article today abt surrogate mum
and it totally pissed me off......there was a statement made by this smart alec WHICH TOTALLY PISSED ME OFF..........

it goes something like this:-
"if the man leaves the woman who cannot bear him any children and chooses to look for another woman who can bear him children, ITS NOT HIS FAULT"

the actual wordings are:-

"disappointment is natural should the woman be unable to carry a child.
with more women waiting longer to get married, infertility will be a common problem.
in extreme cases, a man might abandon his infertile wife to look for a woman who is able to carry his child.
in such situations, the husband cannot be blame"

so did i interpret it correctly?? or maybe someone can enlightenment me should i misread the statement!!!

omg!! OMFG!!
what a statement to make!!!!!!!
i am totally speechless.........
so irresponsible........... LOSERS!!! really....how can u make such a F***ing statement
its so brainless.......

u mean women are the ONLY one delaying marriages? could be the guy too rite? he dun want to get marry then what u want the woman to do?? leave him?? oh pls.....we are not tt desperate ok.........

u mean infertlity is ONLY womens' problem??? could be the guy too rite???? how can he conveniently push the blame to us, women!!!!!

so if i made a statement like :-
"if the woman leaves the man who cannot provide her with luxury lifestyle as in a tai tai, and she choose to leave him and be with the one who can provide her well, ITS NOT HER FAULT"

or maybe like this :-
" if the woman found out tt the man's sperm count is too low and therefore unable to be pregnant, and she chooses to leave him IN EXTREME CASES, ITS NOT HER FAULT!!"

and so the reason for divorcing will be "HE CANNOT IMPREGNANT ME SO I AM SEEKING A DOVORCE SO TT I CAN MARRY SOMEONE WHO CAN IMPREGNANT ME"

ta da!!
it works both way rite?
what the F*** he talking abt??

what happened to the marriage vows??
saif for f***ing fun??
really CCB!! KNN!! BK!!!
*shake head*

what an irresponsible statement..........."not his fault?"

so to say if the man leaves his yellow face wife who has help him produce 2 beautiful bb and thus the figure went out of shape and he chooses to be with someone who is pretty and slim, ITS NOT HIS FAULT!!!"

but in the above case, the woman already popped babies for him lor, so why still want to leave? coz she did not maintain her figure and turned yellow, tts why its a valid reason to leave her, leave the children, leave the marriage.........

and reason for divorce " BECOZ WIFE TURNED YELLOW FACED. NEVER MAINTAINED HER FIGURE AFTER BIRTH. DECIDED TO SEEK A DIVORCE TO MARRY SOMEONE MORE PRETTY, BEAUTIFUL AND SLIM."

really damn it!!
TAMADE!!!!!!!

so will there be a smart alec who will come out and say "maybe should have a clause tt all couples before marriage should go for a check up and if really either one is infertite then the marriage will be called off. rs will be terminated"

then another smart alec will come out and say "but what if the couples dun mind......."

and another one will come and say "today dun mind, does not mean in future still dun mind lor....."

and the debate goes on and on and on........

but in my own humble opinion......i really cannot accept such irresponsible statement made!!!