Tuesday, October 14, 2008

WHY COMPLAIN NOW??

dad and mum wanted to go Vietnam in nov
so dad went ard looking for packages and comparing prices
( tt's common rite? everybody is doing tt rite)
anyway, when sister came back from Shanghai, dad told her abt this trip
and sister, being sister, claimed tt she can find cheaper deals
and so dad said "ok lor. since u said u can do it, u go do it"

few weeks later, the scenrio has changed
dad keeps chasing sister to "check your emails? the agency got reply or not?" tt was like few mins after my sister send email to the agency....cmi rite?
then if u dun check, he will every sec every min kept nagging u to do it
and my sister very pek chey coz the moment she opened her eyes from her beauty sleep, my dad will go "how? check email already? reply yet?" standard qns.......hahaha

dad is complaining tt sister is not doing anything
but i saw sister doing this and tt but dad no sees
he only complains tt she is not doing anything. not "eagerly" looking for better deals for him
and sister, being sister, threw temper and said tt dad is fussy with this and tt and its very difficult to do things for him esp he this also want and tt also want
sigh

in my humble opinion hor, its very unfair for dad to say tt sister have not been doing it for him lor. in the first place, he asked her to do it so why complain now??
tts why, i never do things for him
coz i know he is FUSSY and CHOOSY and he cannot make up his mind
he kept having 2 and 3 and in the end, only made u frustrated with him
and then another round of quarrel lor
tts why dad never asked me to do things for him and i NEVER volunteered my service or advice coz we will bound to have our differences.
so to maintain our good r/s, we shall not do anything for each other.......

i know very bad like this, afterall HE is my dad
but wait till u see me SCREAMING at the top of my lungs, u will know tt perhaps by not doing anything in the first place is a better deal afterall.........

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