HOW SHOULD IT BE???

Yesterday I saw something
And I wonder……….

We were having our dinner and there was this table of 5 sitting behind us
After footing the bill, all stand to make a move
One of the girl, I think got her bf/husband to come fetch her
“honk”
And she bidded farewell to her friends, and she went towards the car
I saw a guy sitting at the passenger seat and there was no attempt to alight the car and let the girl has the passenger seat next to the driver
The girl went to the door and attempted to open the door and the guy sitting inside still no action
I saw the girl apologised and proceed to take the back seat

And I started to wonder…………..why didn’t the guy move to the back seat? And why the driver did not ask the guy friend to move to the back seat……..

So I asked dear “imagine ur friend gave u a ride. But told u tt he needs to go pick up his wife first. When he reached the pick up pt, what will u do?”
My dear said “ I will give up the seat to the wife lor and move to the back”
Steady!! Swee!! So impressed!!
He continued with “if its his friend, he will also asked his friend to move to the back one coz the seat is reserved for the wife”
And I asked him “what if the friend dun move leh?”
He said “ I will insist tt he move lor. So what if he shares one underwear with me in army days, she is my wife lor”
And I said “dear u said tt becoz I am here rite.”
And he said “u wait till HGK comes back then u see lor”
Then I gave him a face and said “what if HGK really tell me I share one underwear with him lor.”
He said “ I will tell HGK “f*** lah. Sit behind”
*beam beam*
That’s the difference b/w gentleman and hooligan???!!?
Got the latter will talk abt “BROTHER BROTHER. LOYALTY”

Anyway, dear said “if the hubby no asked the friend to move behind, then the girl dun go up the car. Asked him to go back himself. She is gg to have some drinks with her friends first. Then dun go home. Until the guy calls her……..
But frankly speaking what for huh??
I mean when the guy calls her later, she will still be angry lor
So she will go home meh??
Er……….too chim for me

Anyway, dear stated another scenario.
He said u go asked ur friends, after marriage, who is closer to u, partner or parents?
So I asked him for his answer
Though I know tt he will said partner
Coz for me, its also partner
But his reasons were “its very simple theory. If u love ur partner more. She can feel the love u have for her. And she will inturn treat ur parents good”

Tts the same reason tt my dad is thinking too
By treating the SIL good, they will inturn treat his daughters good too!!
But too bad, they just dun understand him
They just simply dun understand where he is coming from, and mistook his generousity as a bad thing
Sigh
As I told mama, “we are family. Tts why we can understand. And only we can understand. Others dun understand also bo pian. Nothing we can do”

But then back to the 2nd scenario which dear gave
Some women might not see it that way lor
They might think tt they have a upper hand coz the hubby loves them so much more than his own parents……..
U know, as in, those shows also have lor

And frankly speaking, filial piety starts at home
If u not filial to ur own parents how can ur partner’s GREAT love for u, makes u treat his parents well??
Hm………… *ponder*