HOW MANY KIDS?

dear told me his coll son's asked the papa for hdp for christmas
and the boy is only 6 yrs old!!!!
but his coll did not get his son a hdp but got him another present
but the boy is so smart, after getting the christmas present, the VERY next day the boy asked his papa for another gift
and the papa went "ah boy, we just bought one yesterday rite?"
the boy went "ok papa, then let's play scissor paper stone, if i win, u got to buy me this gift ok. "
and the papa went "ok"
and then after 3 rounds, the boy lost and instead of admitting DEFEAT, he went "not fair. AGAIN"............hahaha........steady rite?
sound so like me, i told dear..........>.<

and then suddenly he asked me this during dinner on sat "how many kids do u plan to have next time?"
my closest friends should know tt i loves kids and would like to have 2, one girl and one boy is the most ideal situation
but frankly speaking, bringing up a kid is no joke!!!
i am no longer young lor, running behind or beside my child would be a tiring task for me
and hor, if i have no time to educate them, discipline them, i think better dun pop out lor
really!!

imagine this:-

scene 1
children screaming and shouting and wailing their lungs out in PUBLIC and u simply bochap coz u think "kids are kids, its a phase. let them" but i tell u, what will a by stander sees?? they dun see it this way, they see it as "what is tt mama doing? she is not doing anything to stop her children.........omg!! what kind of parenting....... coz tts what i am seeing as a by stander now *opps!*

scene 2
children running all over the place, climbing up the poles in mrt, pretending to be monkey swinging on the handle bar...........omg!! *slap forehead* *faint can*

scene 3
"mama mama come quickly, why u so slow huh? can run faster? u very slow leh.......*faint*

scene 4
"mama can u do this sum for me i dun know. *look at the sum, shake head* next moment send kid for tuition.......

there will be more to add on lor.......>.<

but frankly, my thoughts are slightly different from where i first started
children are fun, they are the bundle of joy, they made the family complete.........BUT REALLY, in my own humble opinion, regardless of got gahmen funding or not, if u have no time for them....and time i meant QUALITY time, forget it........

so my reply to dear is "dun pop lor if u have no intention to buy hdps for ur kids. just buy for me. every year get a new hdp for me can already"
and i got a stare from him.........
not sure is tt the answer he looking for........but tts my answer.......no time to discpline and take care of the kids, dun bring them into this world.......