BO CHAP?? or LENIENT?

i thought i was easy going
but then some one told me in her opinion i was simply bo chap
omg!!
am i??

i thought i was being lenient
but ended up i am viewed as bo chap
erm......tts not good....no no no
so what am i gg to do abt it?

be more "difficult"?
be more on the ball?
be more involved?
be more aggressive??

then again, its not me.........
but is it good or no good??
erm....got to change for the better.......
maybe sometimes be bo chap sometimes be lenient bah
mixture of both sure no wrong de

am i being misunderstood??