醒了 2

i think I shared this song before.....醒了 sang by 楊千嬅

chorus:-

我是真的醒了
記憶 別 來了
曾經有你的
不再是我的

wake up call
dun continue to waste time on something or someone tts not meant to be

BUT frankly, how many ppl really can understand
and the story goes like this:-

last nite supposed to be a happy dinner gathering
end up, someone tio "fly aeroplane" by her bf
and she was so mad tt she was screaming and shouting
we analysed her current rs and situation with tt guy
and told her "she is better off without him"

then she kept saying abt
"2 years le" "think back so happy" "sometimes he so sweet"
erm....er.....hmph. like tt then how neh

anyway I guessed she just want to scream, shout and cry la
frustration a lot, need to let out some steam
I mean, all the steam

so hor, end up, we told her "we think u should just let go, but the final decision is urs"
very diplomatic rite, coz when someone unstable, talk what also no use de lor. and she also made up her mind le. she just want to let out her frustration and "wei qu"
and we all know tt she will continues on with him

but what did the bf do?
btw, I dun know this bf de....but after last evening, I feel tt I like know him a lot
hahaha
just a jerk
okok, anyway, tts only my humble opinion lor, not offending anyone
okok back to the story

they arranged to meet for lunchie yesterday then gf told him tt they will come meet us for dinner after their outing
bf asked gf "if I meet u then I said we gg to meeting my friends later, u tell me, will u go or not?"
gf went "if u dare to arrange, of course, I will go, why cannot go? u tell me"
then ok diam diam
why gf said "if u dare", coz hor, the guy no tell ppl tt they are a couple for 2 years le.....

so anyway, he also no say he not joining or whatever lah and the proceeded as their norm outing
gf went to pick up some stuff in the town aread then he went to pick her up
but when she got onto the car, he said "hey the peranakan food not open b/w 2 to 5pm so cannot eat le"
gf said " ok then no choice. eat what then?"
then bf said "lets go hans then"
and ok lor
bf drove ard and cannot find hans
so gf pek chey and kindly told him "I heard my friend said bedok got hans leh"
then the bf said ok we go bedok then
but when they reached bedok, they cannot find hans then bf saw hawker and said "hawker"
but gf kicked up a fuss so ended up at bedok pt
u know la, bedok pt got many restaurants
but the bf looked looked see see and said "go killney's"
gf got mad got from peranakan to hans to hawker to killney's
she buay ta han esp she was prepared to go for peranakan food le
and she said "no. bedok pt got many restaurants, we eat other food"
then they walked ard in bedok pt before deciding on one restaurant
then the best thing come le, the gf said "lets order A side dish to share"
and bf went "2 claypot rice will do" so means no side dish lor....
and bf continued with "after eating, I will leave"
then gf FUMED and told him "I arranged for XXX to join us tonight too...then now u said u not joining, then XXX comes for what? in tt case, u dun need to eat with me la"

I think u guys can guess what happened next rite
the bf just stood up and walked out of the rest leaving the poor girl sitting in the restaurant
sigh
reminds me so much of jerk
but I was not left in restaurant la, I was left standing on the street
but then still same rite
JERK

anyway come to think of it hor, sometimes matter of the hearts also cannot say much la
u tell ppl A, later anything happened, they put the blame on u.....u dun tell ppl, then ppl will said why u no say
so funny de rite
but I see her like tt so heart pain esp she was screaming shouting and crying last nite
but when we all left at 11pm she was feeling much better, coz no more screaming and shouting
though she teared when we told her to let go
this jerk has so much neg ions and will absorb her positive ions and make her worst
so should I count my blessings tt I am single without these bgr problems
or the problem is the JERK

of course like what gf said, she is lonely need someone to go out with at times, some one to pamper and love her
so I told her to get a companion bah, not a bf, no commitment kind
so regardless of wat the companion did, say, see, whatever his behavior is, she wont be affected by him coz as long as he can come out and accompany her watch movie, eat, shopping, can le...
sigh

come to think of it, better for me to look for  a companion rather than a commitment rs rite?
hm..then find an escort lor
kekekke
not bad rite
an idea, let me think abt it

move on bah....
I read somewhere if the rs cannot see light, then get out of the rs

or perhaps she should just lower her expectations then she wont be disappointed
like for yesterday, regardless of where he brought her to eat or eat what, as long as can curb their hunger, its food, just EAT
then no angry lor.... no sad tt he did not pamper her
regardless of what time he can come out to meet her, as long as he still meets her, then JUST MEET
then no angry tt he rather spend the time with his children, his ex wife or his mama or his own friends

I just feel tt he no respect her as a gf
then this kind of bf really dun need to have le
nothing to lose actually
better off to be alone, though will be lonely, but sure can find someone to go out with on weekends.... or find some part time work to do, so tt dun have so much spare time for her to feel lonely esp her own kids also big le....

and the best thing is one is coming to 50 the other past 50 le
still like so "cartoon" on the rs
then the next qn is, is tt why and how their 1st marriage broke down?