爱人和被爱的都可怜

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相爱的第一天 什么感觉
最后的那一天 最后的那一天
无力再重现 相爱的机会
最后的那一天 最后的那一天
心碎来不及遮掩 写坏的 完结篇

爱人和被爱的都可怜

MYSTERY SOLVED

M: dear, tt day i told u since cannot find a venue, we change plan, another time ok. u haven tell me are u ok with it? but i think u should have not much comment rite? coz i make the decision rite?
D: dear, i told u le, u decide mah. u say what we do what lor. u want when then when lor. its ok with me
M: *beam beam* ok ok....u dun mind can le...coz i never asked u whether is it ok or not. i just tell u what i want to do. my friends said cannot like tt de. must hear ur views.
D: its ok. i already said le mah, u decide.

*ponder ponder*
what other ways can i have my wedding in???
*light bulb*

CHRISTMAS GATHERING

today we had our 'NUS' christimas gathering
S4 brought his partner along...
turned out tt she is the youngest among us!!!
hehehe....S11, u no longer the youngest!!! hehehe

anyway, the lunch buffet not bad leh
simple food but nice and yummy!!
want to consider bringing parents there one day.... *beam beam*
the lunch is from 12 to 5pm leh!!
and we really sat there till 5pm leh.......
hehehe
made our money well spend!!!!
woohoo!!!

and then the jing dian......gift exchange!!!
LL forgot to bring her present so she opt out of the exchange
we drew lots and i was so lucky!!! i drew my own name!!
so they said "ok, all re draw again"
and then 2nd time, all gotten a gift

TL got mine
S2 got T
i got S4
S4 got S2
and therefore A gotten TL

everybody was happy with their exchange gifts except A
why?
coz the gift was a luggage lock!!!
and A was like "why a lock!!!!"
and then everybody chipped in a bit here and there
i think TL must be feeling lousy
but then what happened to the spirit of gift giving???
sigh
but then, frankly, if i gotten tt, i also dun know what will i do with it
but in the first place, i won't buy tt for gift exchange ......
and then A went "ai ya!! SY, i should have taken S4's if not for u who drew ur own name!!!!"
and then i just smile smile lor

what happened was
i was the 2nd last to drew the lot and she was last
if she exchange with me
i would be taking S4 and she will take mine and T will have gotten TL's...
then perhaps she will feel better????

so what i got for the gift exchange???
i bought the jap doll coin purse and the magnet gg by the name "chu chu" for exchange and i got 2 magnets and a hdp charger holder in return.....
good exchange?
ya why not i thought.....hehehe
=))

at least, i bought something which is slightly more useful than a luggage lock!!??!!

i find it very diff to buy gift for ppl who are into branded stuff
really....no brand means no good for them le
tts what i think la, in my humble opinion

and not forgetting tl has not be working for the past few months
why no time to go shopping meh??
last min then she went shopping and got tt!!
hm....budget constraint?? can't be wat, coz budget already set, so just need to find some stuff ard tt price....
hm...*ponder*

but a pc of good new is " she took up the job offer!!!"
she has a job le!!
=))
congrats!!!

so happy to know tt both of my friends have gotten a job le!!
=))
hip hip hurray!!!

DECISION DECISON DECISION

sigh
really breaks my heart to see my dear friend in this stage
dun she knows tt her world does not revolve ard just ONE person!!!! (OK, she is not the only one like this. coz I used to be like this too!!! hehehe....sorry for the pot calling the kettle black....hehehe =P)
even if she does not believe tt it breaks my heart to see her in this stage, at least, believe tt her parents will.........
>.<

my friend, u got to be strong...there is nothing i can do
whatever u decide to do, i will support u
just like u were there for me when i was low low low......

ever think wat the other party will think or feel to see u in this stage??
also feel sad??? heart also break??
or out having "fun"...as if nothing happened???
sigh
then how??? u feel lagi worst rite????!!!??

imagine he can still eat, sleep, drink and poo
but u?? can't eat, can't sleep, can't drink and can't poo........sigh

i remembered last time when we quarrelled....
i will be at home "crying" and feeling so so depressed
thinking tt he will also be
but end up, he was out everyday with his friends, MJ, bowling, eating, karaoke, outing, etc....whatever u can think of....he did not even put the matter into his heart lor
and i was like "wa kao!! bloody hell"
few times later, i also learnt to "heck care" la....
u have ur life i also have lor
why should i be feeling so depressed and crying away when he is out having fun .......

then i hear others stories
if u be 1st, i will be 15th
so both can play the same game....
>.<
*evil grin*
u "steal eat" i also can "steal eat"
u asked me dun like this do, but u urself can do, then sorry lor, i also can do...
*evil evil*

but then, play play play
one day also sian lor
so why dun handle the things like what a reasonable person will do
dun act childishly and sweep the matter under the carpet
bring it out, openly talk and settle
"every problem comes with many possible alt solutions"....i was told..u just need to find the best solution...

sigh sigh sigh
really very upset ...... when will my friend be herself again?
well, pray to upstairs bah
might see a light at the end of the dark tunnel.....
maybe think too much le....its all a misunderstanding??????
upstairs will give strenght and show the way....afterall, everything happened for a reason rite?
we just simply know the reason now....but one day, one day, we will

full confrontation??? get a reply which can be acceptable???
or diam diam till the day u lie in the coffin???? then no more complains....coz u accepted in silence....

which character r u??
u decide

PARTNERS OR FRIENDS

saw these and decided to summarise into my own words and understanding

when 2 ppl gotten married, they are "by all means" to have their own friends from the opp sex
but when they get "too closed" and the other party in the rs is unhappy,
u got to assess the situtation seriously, is it worth while to continue with the so called "platonic rs" and allowed the other party in the rs to incur unhappiness or even grew suspious and then start to have strong arugments every now and then..........

i think its very true....all boils down to "is it worth it!!!"

but of course, u must also gain the trust of ur partner...but pls dun take it for granted
communication is also impt....
best is can intro tt so called "damn good buddy" to ur partner
then all know each other, go out together once in awhile
then perhaps still can happy happy

frankly, to save all trouble
u can have ur opp sex friends
but try to go out as a grp instead of 1 to 1...
1 to 1 can, but pls informed ur partner, not to spotcheck on u...but at least even if friends saw u gg out with another person, when they "hao xin" go tell, ur partner can confidently said "oh ya, he was with XXX, i know i know. we are good friends, no worry" coz if u dun say, i tell u, storm and thunder and lightning will come lor
and lastly, if its only friends, then why cannot inform....is there something to hide?

anyway, if the rs is impt to u....i think u should know what to do.....know ur limits dun take each other for granted
ai ya, dun need ppl to teach de la, u should know what to do...really...if u really loves the person
coz end of the day, u just want both parties to be happy happy
=))

WHAT TO DO

really breaks my heart to see her so sad and heart broken
but what can i do?
frankly, nothing......
what can i say?
seriously, nothing too....
then how??
i also dun know how........

BUSY WEEKS

i have been very busy for the past few weeks
busy with what
i also dun know
just rush rush rush
end of the day, also dun know what i have accomplished or completed
but i know i did not finish my OWN work
sigh

i tell u, busy until no time to go toilet
whether to pee or to poo
sigh
so what happened?
now i tummy ache lor
i think hor, toxic inside me leh
sigh
coz i starting to lao
wa kao!!

tummy pain.......2 days leh.....
is it stressed huh???