saw these and decided to summarise into my own words and understanding
when 2 ppl gotten married, they are "by all means" to have their own friends from the opp sex
but when they get "too closed" and the other party in the rs is unhappy,
u got to assess the situtation seriously, is it worth while to continue with the so called "platonic rs" and allowed the other party in the rs to incur unhappiness or even grew suspious and then start to have strong arugments every now and then..........
i think its very true....all boils down to "is it worth it!!!"
but of course, u must also gain the trust of ur partner...but pls dun take it for granted
communication is also impt....
best is can intro tt so called "damn good buddy" to ur partner
then all know each other, go out together once in awhile
then perhaps still can happy happy
frankly, to save all trouble
u can have ur opp sex friends
but try to go out as a grp instead of 1 to 1...
1 to 1 can, but pls informed ur partner, not to spotcheck on u...but at least even if friends saw u gg out with another person, when they "hao xin" go tell, ur partner can confidently said "oh ya, he was with XXX, i know i know. we are good friends, no worry" coz if u dun say, i tell u, storm and thunder and lightning will come lor
and lastly, if its only friends, then why cannot inform....is there something to hide?
anyway, if the rs is impt to u....i think u should know what to do.....know ur limits dun take each other for granted
ai ya, dun need ppl to teach de la, u should know what to do...really...if u really loves the person
coz end of the day, u just want both parties to be happy happy
=))
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