FALSE HOPES

seriously i really dun get it
i mean, if u agreed to do it why make "noise" later?

hm......
take example:-
what do u want to eat?
KFC
ok
then off to KFC
after eating KFC:-
not nice de hor..blah blah blah
huh? u dun want to eat then why u dun want to say just now. just suggest another venue lor
becoz u want to eat mah
kua kua kua!!!

next example
which movie?
this one
ok
bought tix le
go in watch
end of movie:-
wa kao!! stupiak show. so lousy one
huh? ok wat
no lor. not nice de. waste money
then why u dun want to suggest to watch another one. i am ok de
becoz u want mah
kua kua kua

another example
this dress nice or not
nice
bought it
next moment:-
wa kao! why u wear such an ugly dress come out with me
hey! u bought it for me de, u said its nice ah when i asked u
becoz u happy mah
kua kua kua

i remembered i went to watch this movie with this jerk
after buying the tix, he grumbled grumble grumble abt the movie, totally waste of $$, not nice blah blah blah
then i asked so still want to watch?
buy tix le, of course watch la
ok off we went
once inside the cinema, the grumbling started
then when the movie started the grumbling stopped
but half way thru the movie, the grumbling started again
i was really damn tl lor
and it totally spoiled my mood
when movie ended, jerk went "see not nice rite? dun know what the movie is abt"
seriously, if he could have stopped grumbling and watched the movie in silent, i am sure he could have grasp something out of it
and as for me, i was totally in a spoiler mood....so i did not enjoy the movie too

anyway, what i wanted to say is
if u want to do something just becoz u want tt person to be happy or becoz the person wants it
then pls go thru the whole process of it GRACEFULLY
dun do part A, just to make the person happy, then part B to Z dun do. and then grumble grumble grumble
u unhappy the person who hears u grumble also damn tl lo
i mean, like tt will be the person be happy??? u only making tt person sad
hopes all dashed
go, went, gone
gone with the wind.......
and hor in the first place, nobody force u to do it leh
u did it on ur own accord
whether selfish reasons or whatever shit, nobody force u lor

its just like the monkey together with his si xiong and si di, followed the monk to obtain the sutra.....u see them giving up half way or do u see them grumbling abt the journey and said, ok, i will see u off at this pt, the rest of the journey to the west, u r on ur own!!!

wa kao!!
seriously, this is not the way its work......

frankly, if u cannot go thru pt A to pt Z for whatever reason
whether is it can't be bother, not happy, buay siong, dun see why must do it
then dun even bother to go thru pt A
seriously, dun even think abt beginning the journey
coz there is no happiness in the beginning, its only the beginning of a storm......

i cannot believe this actually happened to my friend
i mean what have she done wrong to deserve this
true, she boarded the bus and embarked on the journey, u boarded the bus too
halfway thru, u decided to alight and u "blamed" tt the journey was started by her and u did it coz she wanted it and u want her to be happy
wa kao!!

in more lay man term:-
u wanted the marriage not me
but u turned up during the rom
i turned up becoz i dun want u to be sad
*faint*

and frankly, i do believe if u dun want to go thru the whole process, its ok
coz i am sure someone out there will be willing to do it.......
*wink*
maybe not today, not tomolo, or day after, one week, one month, one yr, or few yrs later...but one day, someone will be more than willing to complete the journey


seriously, sometimes, i do wonder am i a jinx
why my friends encountered the same thing as me
=((
*sorry sorry*
but then again, i have friends who are also happily ever after
then where is wrong? bo tio??
sigh
friends out there, better stay away from me, as far as possible
coz i am a jinx
sigh
*gg into depression*