Thursday, February 17, 2011

PANG TANG OR NO PANG TANG

hm.....
frankly and seriously, i also dun know why they shocked when i said tt i have no intention to attend
erm....ok, i know we are considered closed but but but....dun know why to me, i dun think i am so closed to tt person tt i will attend the wake lor
parents yes, but grandparents...hm.....

but the 2 who asked me made me feel very guilty abt it
then i was re assured by another coll, "its ok de. nothing wrong. and also now is cny mah, pang tang"

but i know my family not pang tang....the problem lies with me
i dun see why i should attend lor
and just becoz we are closed?
hm....

i send her a sms
she replied with "its ok. no worries"

frankly, if it happened to u, what will u do??
and will u be angry if ur closed friend no come attend the wake????

1 comment:

horus said...

Sorry, but i will be upset lor.
To me, its not how the dead person is related to me, but the fact that he/she is my relative. I suppose for normal friends, immediate family only ba. But for good/close friends, as long as i know got white affair, i will go lor, don't care whether cny or what... cos in the end, the person is my close friend. Unless I really don't know (cos I don't have newspapers at home...)