COME OR DUN COME

was sitting in the ward with mama previous two nights
mama suddenly asked me this " u see the auntie every night got to many ppl come and see her. when she discharged, will these ppl still be so filial and come and see her every day?


I looked at her
and told her "mama , after u discharge and come back home.  I also wont care abt u de.  u do ur things, I do my things. dun come disturb me. just like now, u do ur things, I do mine."
and she replied "good"

*beam beam*

I think mama should be able to understand wat I want to tell her bah
its okie tt sis dun come, life back to normal, nothing has change, everybody doing their own things. life still goes on...

I can sense tt mama was quite sad
always in deep thoughts sitting there staring into the air
but what can she do right?
telling me sis comes later and later each day.... and will go off at 3 plus....
frankly to me, got come is good enough le
come le, dun make din din and dong dong... its the best

in my humble opinion if possible really dun come la
once in a blue moon come, all hee hee ha ha can le
every day meet, really CMI

like today we were taught the stoma bag aka shit bag
she saw the shit in the bag and went "like tt how to change? mama u dun eat so much la"
then when the nurse was changing for mama.. she told me "wa! can smell it. cannot" and she walked out of the ward with her coffee
then when the nurse changed finish, she again told mama not to eat too much and then said "anyway its papa and sy gg to change." then she added on her girl.

i dun know what to say
when we were young, we also poo ... last time no pampers... only nappies.... mama also like tt changed us but since when she told us "dun drink too much milk huh" OR " dun eat too much huh"
frankly... speechless

anyway like i said
better to meet less and talk less
and i have decided
PERIOD