ATTITUDE

realised tt ppl can be so stubborn at times
but i really wonder is it stubborn, ego or just attitude???!??

u said "1" they would want to insist that is "1.5" or "1.01"
u said "can" they would tell u "cannot"
u said "cannot" they would insist its "can"
u tell them "right" they tell u its" left"
u said "left" and they tell u its" right"
*pull hair*

why like this??
why can't ppl just listen and take it
they of course can clarify, but cannot insist rite?
rules are rules (though they are meant to be broken or flexible) but guidelines and instructions must follow de rite?
how can it be bend??

attitude problem leh
whatever it is, dun sabo me can le
there is also no intention to sabo back
but hor, since i won't be ard, i think i better "inform" her and let her know in advance
just in case.........kana sabo and yet not ard to defend myself

it was discussed tt she will vet thru the doc before sending out
then he came to me, in 3 occasions citing different reasons for wanting to send it out by TODAY
reminded him tt it was discussed to be like tt
and he insisted supported by his 101 reasons tt he want it out
argggghhhh
he gave me why so rigid look
and i told him "look here, i am not trying to be difficult here, but since it was discussed and agreed to be like this, i think we better follow. hope u understand"

this incident upsetted me so much
tt i almost broke down today
he does not know the amt of stress i am having each day
here i am trying to "help" him and of course myself too
there he does not want to listen and want to do it his own way

fine!!
i told him if anything should happened, i will not be held responsible or even be liable for anything......

wonder is it me the one having attitude problem or him??
sigh