TELLING LIES

hm....
everybody should know the story abt the boy who cried wolf
and everybody should know tt lying is no good and will not get u anywhere
but since everybody knows why lying is no good, then why choose to lie???

my friend, got very mad, with her daughter, becoz of lying
her girl actually lied to her coz she wanted to go swimming with her friends w/o adults watching over them
so she lied tt the elder sis of her friend and the maid will be ard

so how was the lie exposed???
my friend called the maid and maid said tt they have gone out
so she quickly called the house and spoke the daughter
the lie still not exposed until my friend decided to ask "how come the maid not with u all huh when i called just now?"
the girl panic and said to her friends "oh dear! how? my mum found out the maid is not with us"
kua kua kua
immediately my friend got mad and demanded to know how old is the elder sis and also where are they now?"
and a voice from behind came "how old u want me to be? then i will be how old lor"
wa kao!!
children nowadays very what hor.
last time, like this say, sure kana whack de lor

anyway, my friend gotten very mad demanded tt her girl come meet her immediately
when they met up
my friend told her girl tt she treated her like an adult and trusted her but this is the way the trust is being treated

BINGO!!!
hit the nail right on the spot
TRUST!!!!
takes yrs to build but a sec to be destroyed
really
amazing!!

frankly, isn't this very familiar
it does not only happened to kids
all becoz they are playful and wanted to play
but it happened to adults too
in a r/s or friendship or working r/s
u trusted the person, but the person can betray u for their own interests???

sigh
heart broken into many pieces.......
what happened if i happen on me one day
i found out tt my children lied to me
i think i whack the life out of them leh
i might not be as calm as how my friend handled it
but i think my world will come crushing down
just like it did before.....

heard the recent rap/song by rihanna and XXX
just gonna stand there watch me burn, its alright, coz i like the way it hurts
just gonna stand there hear me cry, but its alright, coz i like the way u lie.....

in my own humble opinion, i never likes the way it hurts neither do i like lies.......so its never alright........
maybe need to go understand deeper into the meaning of the song