NO THANK YOU?

its just a simple "Thank You"
whats wrong?
I mean this is basic courtesy right?
and esp more impt as we are in overseas, its portrayed to others the image of our country

so what did I do wrong when I said thank you to the guy who returned me my change after I bought the mee sua from him? or from the uncle when he passed me the shorts I bought?
I totally have no idea whats wrong did I do tt she has to scream and shout at me and then gave me a lecture tt "its their job. why u need to say thank you to them? if really wan to say, just nod ur head lor"

OH my god!!!
ya, like tt also want to argue with me lor
I told her in service line, or whatever line, its their job, fair enough, I agreed, but a simple thank you can make their day, then why not? wat do we have to lose?  and ok maybe can nod head, but open the mouth to say thank you wont die lor
and she rattled on and on tt its their job and I should stop doing it
I told her "its basic courtesy"
and she said if I am happy saying thank you then why am I angry now
I told her I am mad coz she kept saying me when she knows tt I have to say thank you
and she said "if u want to keep saying, then I also can say my things. why only u can say and I cannot?" and gave me a smirk look
"FAIR" I told her. then u continue to say bah coz I will still continue to say "thank you"
and next moment, I said it again and she rattled on and I shut down. just let her rattle on and on
hahaha

frankly if u dun see what I am seeing, then sorry lor...coz u r not wrong neither am I
so stop forcing ur idea/ thoughts on others

I mean if the teacher is paid to teach the students.. then they also did their part le lor, dun expect ur child to score distinction lor.. coz the teacher role is to teach and they just teach lor.. ur child can excel or not...that ur business... so stop blaming the teachers

or maybe, u gave birth to ur children
so they can ask u for money for this and for tt
u have to give them
coz why?
coz ITS UR FUCKING JOB!!
they did not choose to be born.. u "forcefully" give birth to them
so u have to provide them with ANYTHING and EVERYTHING they request for
coz its UR JOB
so dun expect ur children to say THANK YOU to u or be gratitude to u
coz its ur job

or the cleaners at the hawker or foodcourt
I know its their job to clean after we leave
but dun u agreed sometimes ppl just dun know why can eat until dirty the whole table kind
its very yucky to clean the table at our own house after a meal lor
imagine what the cleaners have to do
ya, I agreed part of their job, its their job
they are paid to do
so we dun need to say thank you
but we can show our appreciation rite?
with a simple "THANK YOU"
whats wrong?
and I tell u, a simple "thank you" can make their day lor
and u also feel good urself

I think her reasonings is so stupiak
if no need basic courtesy, then I tell u, why gahmen needs to have campaign and promotion. why have singa the lion for fuck??

her and her stupiak reasons
anyway like I said we see things differently
she might be right, we dun owe them anything, its their job so no need to say thank you
but I tell u, sometimes a simple THANK YOU can really make me very happy and forget abt all the unhappiness....

and then when we r walking on the road, I told her "be careful"
she scolded me too
"why ask me to be careful? I have the right of the way. she coming from behind me. she should watch out for me"
OMG!!
I really can scream at her lor
whats wrong?
what's wrong with me saying tt
warning her
so wat if she has the right of the way, then how?
if tio knock down by the car and then sway sway u mati then so what if u have right of the way... the driver will go to jail be fine or what?
then u leh? u r gone forever lor
or worst if u r cripple or what
u think the person gg to take care of ur for life?
PLEASE dun lie to urself lor.... U R ONLY GG TO BE A BURDEN TO OTHERS
and since on holiday, then have a light and happy mood mah
why always be on guard to want to fight with ppl just becoz u have the right of way

take for ex, we were gg up the escalator
then this lady just walked into her
 I told her "be careful" coz I saw the lady not looking at where she is gg
then sis scolded me"what  be careful? its she be careful lor. why me? she is coming from behind me, I am in the front, she be careful not me"
but I tell u hor
I simply dun care her la
coz I know if I did not say 'be careful" when things happened, I will feel guilty or bad tt I did not do anything to try to STOP IT
I mean I know we will be careful on our own but we cannot guarantee others also like us so careful de mah
then sis got angry coz the lady "bang" into her mah, so she said the lady lor
but I tell u, the lady was "deaf" lor. and she just walked away
hahaha
steady rite
so u go be angry lor
angry all u  want
others also no care

and for me, since I already pre warned u
and u want to be angry then u tio "bang" then I already did my part
so I happy u angry is ur own fucking business

frankly, I think her idea and thinking all something wrong de

whats wrong with me saying thank you or be careful
do let me know if u think sis is right and I am wrong