NOT READY? SO WHEN READY

just wondering when the guys proposed have they ever thought tt the proposal will not be accepted?
i mean what if the reply is "NO" or "i am not ready yet" or "why huh? like this no good meh?" or "i dun want to settle down now"
then how huh?
kua kua kua.....
*cry*

i mean it takes a lot of courage to pop tt qn rite?
of course, u will have thought carefully before u proposed
but hor, how will u know tt the other party will accept? is ready?

i heard a story tt day
not sure did the guy pop the qn or just want to test test
but the girl actually replied "i am not ready to settle down now"
and i was like "huh? waiting for what?"
frankly speaking, the guy is not a bad catch lah
though she did has a few flies flying ard her and the flies knew abt the bf too
also dun know why want to step one leg in.........sigh
but she cannot be still weighing her pros and cons now rite?
i mean she wants to weigh, the guy too can do tt......

anyway, whatever
i am not in any position to comment
just "huh?"
>.<
duh

so actually hor
when tt kind od situation happened, how will the guy react or feel huh??