WHAT CAN I DO??

my girl called me today

she is supposed to be on leave (today is her 1st day of her 1 week leave)

i knew something was wrong when she asked me "sy r u convenient to talk now"

sigh

when i told her yes........it just opened the flood gate



apparently she was quite upset tt promotion by passed her

she said she is not vying for the promotion but more on the $$$

frankly speaking who isn't rite?

(at least i am)

she said her pay has been frozen for the past 3 yrs

and when she realised tt she did not get the promotion letter, she was very sad

esp when her peers came and asked her abt it and to make things worst, they have and she dun have



she felt tt she has done far more stuff than her peers

so why her peers have and she does not

she even claimed tt someone promised to push her up and apparent it was not the case



and to make me feel bad

she kept asking me "why why why?"

i mean, how could i know? i am also new here

and moreover her promotion not by me

*ahem*



i really dun know how to comfort ppl

so i told her to dun think so much and go enjoy her holiday

when she comes back then we talk futher

and let me find out on my side as i also dun know what happened

she told me how can she dun think abt it or be able to enjoy her holiday

when ppl ard her gotten the promotion except her



seriously speaking, i dun know how to break the news to her

true, she did alot of things

but compared to others, she does not have the initiative and she needs "pushing"

i do agreed sometimes she can made me vomit blood (esp when i am pressing for time)

but she can do her work IF given MORE TIME!!!!

so i did talked to senior before tt perhaps she should work ard her instead of expecting her to do something

know her strength and then build it up and her weakness too........

but senior's expectation is different

sigh........

there's nothing i can help her



i dun want to promise her anything

as i have no confidence tt i can fulfil it

afterall, how long would i be here......



but it just made me feel so sad tt my girl is sad........

=(